The 59-year-old brother named Brother Liu has a pension of more than 7,000 yuan a month, and his family also has a 60-square-meter house. My wife died of illness many years ago, and they have a daughter.
Because he was worried that remarriage would be unfair to his daughter, Brother Liu has been living alone.
But as time went by and his daughter got married, Brother Liu felt that it was time to think about his life's events.
Don't look at him as he is almost 60 years old, but his mentality is still so young. He always dresses up to catch up with fashionable trends, and feels that he is still a young man in his twenties, full of charm, and other old men can't compare to him.
The self-righteous Brother Liu put forward his excellent conditions when choosing the other half: he must not be more than 50 years old, and he must be beautiful. If he doesn't meet his requirements, he'd rather die alone than compromise.
Brother Liu told the matchmaker that in fact, he has had many opportunities to start a family over the years, but he didn't appreciate it.
For example, when his daughter was in high school, the mother of her classmate was also a single girl. The daughter once mentioned to him that the classmate's mother was okay, and if she could be her stepmother, it would definitely not be bad.
Brother Liu's answer is very interesting: "In the future, you will go to college, and her daughter will also go to college." I have to give you 4,000 yuan a month, then I have to give her daughter 2,000 yuan, isn't this just spending my money for her?What a loss!”
The daughter was touched by Brother Liu's comment now, and felt that what her father said was quite reasonable, so she stopped mentioning the matter of matching him with the classmate's mother.
It seems that Brother Liu is really an iron rooster, and he thinks about everything. Now I want to find a young lady, because I feel that my conditions are too superior, so I have to find someone who is worthy of me.
It took a lot of effort for the matchmaker to find a 49-year-old Sister Li. Sister Li is a cleaner, only more than 2,000 yuan a month, and she is a simple woman.
When Sister Li went to Brother Liu's house, Brother Liu felt that she was not in his eyes. When Sister Li saw that there was still a sheet on the bed, she only dared to open a corner and sit down.
Brother Liu was very uncomfortable at that time. It turned out that he deliberately laid sheets on the bed, just because he didn't want others to sit on his bed, but Sister Li violated his taboo.
But when people come, they have to sit and talk, otherwise it will be too rude.
So, the two started chatting. Sister Li asked Brother Liu why he hadn't found a partner for so many years.
Brother Liu said: "Someone has already approached me, and as soon as they met, they mentioned that they would transfer my house and car, and they also added a bunch of conditions to me. Nowadays, people are too realistic, and they ask for money at every turn. I'm not going to get used to them. ”
When Sister Li heard this, her heart beat a drum. Who, we're all at this age, and we don't talk about the conditions when we find a partner, so what are we talking about?Is it difficult to talk about feelings?
Despite this, Sister Li did not say what she wanted to say in front of Brother Liu. politely wished Brother Liu that he could find a perfect partner as soon as possible, and then said goodbye and left.
This matchmaking was too much of a failure. The matchmaker has to have a heart this time, and she must find another object that Brother Liu is interested in.
After some screening, a 49-year-old woman named Ms. Zhou was found.
Ms. Zhou is dressed up fashionably, her hair is dyed blonde, **fair, and she exudes the charm of a mature woman.
When Ms. Zhou came to Brother Liu's house, he had completely changed as a person, enthusiastic and smiling.
Brother Liu asked Ms. Zhou about her relationship status, and Ms. Zhou said that she was divorced.
Brother Liu was not sure when he heard it. He said he was worried that Ms. Zhou and her ex-husband would get back together.
Ms. Zhou smiled: "Then do you want to remarry the two of us?"”
Brother Liu realized that he had said something excessive, and quickly explained that he was just worried that Ms. Zhou would have someone to fight for, so he said this.
Actually, Ms. Zhou wasn't particularly interested in Brother Liu, but she still sat down and chatted for a while to get to know him.
Ms. Zhou asked Brother Liu why he didn't find someone all these years
Brother Liu is still old-fashioned: "You also introduced me." When we first met, she asked me to transfer the house and car to her name. Nowadays, people are too realistic, they ask for money at every turn, and they put forward a bunch of conditions. I'm not going to let them take advantage. ”
Ms. Zhou thought for a while, then became unhappy and said, "Then you don't like me, so there's no need to understand it anymore." ”
At this moment, Brother Liu was embarrassed and could only watch her leave.
In the process of blind date, we should not only pay attention to material conditions, but also pay attention to emotional fit and mutual understanding. Only when we truly understand each other and accept each other can we find the person who is truly suitable. Sometimes, we always want to ask the other person to meet our own conditions, but we ignore whether we can meet the other person's requirements.