In our daily lives, the home is a haven of warmth, a source of comfort and strength.
But the arrival of some people may bring unnecessary troubles and burdens to the family, and even affect the harmony and happiness of the family.
Next, I want to talk about these five types of people. If they show up in your home often, they may increase "poverty". It's not superstition, but there is some truth to it.
First, the lazy man relies on a strong heart.
Sit in the mountains and eat in the fields. ”
If there are lazy and dependent people in the family, they will not contribute to the family, but will become a burden to the family.
This is the case with one of my distant relatives, who is almost forty years old and still has nothing to do at home, doing nothing all day and living on his parents' pension.
Not only was he not aggressive, but he also told his family what to do and complained repeatedly. His presence made the family atmosphere tense and also affected the enthusiasm and mentality of other family members.
Every time he came to our house, we refused from the bottom of our hearts.
Second, people who borrow money and do not repay it, have poor credit.
People don't believe it, they don't know what they can do. ”
Credit is the foundation of interpersonal communication. If a person often borrows money and does not pay it back, his presence is likely to bring financial stress and a crisis of trust to the family.
I have a friend who has suffered a lot of financial losses because he trusted others. A so-called "friend" often borrows money from him, but always finds all kinds of excuses not to pay it back. In the end, not only did the money not come back, but there was also a fuss, which led to the embarrassment of meeting in the future.
It's also human nature that bad things often happen when people with poor credit come to visit their homes.
Third, people who love to gossip and sow discord.
The one who says right and wrong is right and wrong. ”
If someone in the family likes to gossip and sow discord, it will bring endless quarrels and conflicts to the family.
One of my neighbors is such a person. She often came to my house and then told the other neighbors about the right and wrong and the gossip between the neighbors.
Because of her small talk, the originally harmonious neighborhood relationship became strained. Later, when we reduced our contact with her, the family atmosphere gradually returned to calm.
Fourth, people who are full of complaints and negative energy.
Near Zhu Zhe Pond, near Mexico is black. ”
A person who is full of complaints and negative energy can affect the mentality and mood of the family.
A colleague of mine is one such person. Every time he gets together or comes to my house as a guest, he always complains that his work and life are not satisfactory and transmits negative energy.
This otherwise light-hearted party was dull and oppressive because of his complaints. Long-term exposure to such people, we are bound to be affected by negative energy, which leads to depression and a negative outlook on life.
5.People who don't know how to repay gratitude.
The elegance of dripping water should be reported by Yongquan. ”
A person who doesn't know how to repay gratitude, even if you are nice to him, he will not.
Will remember. In my heart, I won't lend a helping hand when you need it.
This was the case with one of my relatives. When their family was in trouble, he asked us for help, and we didn't hesitate to lend a helping hand.
However, when we needed help, he chose to stand by and even get bogged down. The existence of such a person makes us shudder and doubt human nature.