Mo Yan: Tell you a cruel interpersonal relationship, your relationship with anyone, in fact, does not depend on how good you are to others, but on your strength and how many chips you have. People are generally more tolerant of the strong, and even if the weak have done nothing wrong, they will be treated harshly. Even if you swallow your anger, you will often be seen as a cheap pleaser.
Mo Yan's words are always to the point, which is heart-piercing!
yes!It's cruel indeed, how good you are to others, others are not how good you are.
When you are strong, there are people who flock to you, and when you are weak, you are left out in the cold.
In today's society, where the winner is respected and the loser is the loser, interests have become the first choice for everyone to measure value.
The interaction between people is no longer about exchanging sincerity for sincerity, but about exchanging interests for benefits.
We have been taught since childhood to be loving and to be good to others, so that others will be good to you. It's actually very simple, when you are in a difficult time, you will love whoever loves you.
Life, either live for others to see, or live for yourself, the life you can really walk is actually from the second half of your life.
As the saying goes: when people are hungry, don't eat green onions, heartburn;People are poor, don't go to relatives, chilling.
Although we are taught from a young age to love this and love that.
However, he has never been poor and difficult to be a man, and he has never been innocent in the world.
Once upon a time, our parents taught us that we must be honest, kind, and helpful, and if there is a contradiction, we will take a step back and open the sky, even if we suffer a little loss, it doesn't matter.
But after experiencing some people and some things, I slowly found that kindness is sometimes not treated gently, but more often it is used and oppressed more intensively.
You realize that it is not as long as you are kind that everything will go well!
The cruelty and reality of life still make us who have been closed again and again, and we have to wake up.
In this world, don't overestimate your relationship with anyone.
People who don't like us, don't look for them;Those who don't help us, don't go and please;Those who don't think about us, don't bother.
When people are at a low point, try not to go to relatives.
Because you are poor and you are weak, what you do is not good, and others think that you have other intentions.
Seriously, apart from your parents, there are very few people in this world who really want you to be good.
When we swallowed all the grievances, smoothed out the edges and corners of our bodies, survived the cold winter, and walked out of the cage of fate.
will go through another test, the poor in the downtown no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.
When there are many people around you again, see how you choose?
In fact, it is very simple, when you are in trouble and helpless, you will love whoever still helps you.
Hypocrites, stay away;Those who have helped you, remember;People who know how to be grateful will help if they can.
In this world, life is either lived for others to see, or lived for oneself.
To live for others is to save face;To live for yourself is to live for yourself.
The way of this world is really like people drinking water, knowing their own warmth and coldness.
If you care about the eyes of others, you must be bound by the eyes and words of others.
If you live for yourself, you must not be afraid of gossip, be worthy of your heart, and be an honest person.
In fact, no matter what kind of life we live in this life, there will still be people who will say irresponsible things about you.
cares too much, and only one is trapped by himself.
In fact, any relationship goes to the end, but it is just an acquaintance.
Those who can lose don't belong to you in the first place, and no matter how much you care, you can't change the ending.
For a lifetime, let yourself live a life of compromise, trembling, what's the point of living such a frightened life, don't you feel that you have failed this life?
When we are healthy and have a successful career, we will suddenly realize:
Time is too precious, how can there be time to guess the west, where to have time to suffer from gains and losses, where to have time to figure out others, and how can there be time to be nostalgic for the past.
Half a life has passed before we really live and understand
In this life, you have to be with people who are comfortable with you, whether it is a friend or a relative, if you feel tired, you should stay away and please others, it is far better to cultivate yourself.
Therefore, don't be too full of love and accommodation for anyone.
Don't be too concerned about anything, too persistent;You have to understand that if you care too much, you will be tired, and if you love too much, it will hurt and hurt.
However, there is nothing wrong with the teaching of parents, to be a man, kindness must be there, but only kindness, never allow!
What you have to do is not only to be kind to others, but also to make yourself strong, to learn Xi, to precipitate, to grow, to accumulate your own chips, to have the ability that others cannot replace, and to spell out your own piece of the sky!
We must understand that the meaning of hard work is not to become a strong person to bully others one day, but to be able to choose the life we want and realize our dreams!
Because, only if you are strong, the world will look at you with admiration and a pleasant face!
For a lifetime, it seems that you get along with others, but in fact, it is a contest between yourself and yourself, and the result of the contest is to see whether you are the master of your own life.
As Kazuo Inamori said, "Instead of complaining, it is better to be grateful and move on, and the suffering will not be endless." Not getting carried away when you are proud, and not being depressed when you are frustrated, this is more important than anything else. ”
It's not that others have alienated themselves, it's that their own pace can't keep up with the pace of others.
Don't complain, no one can become strong casually, but casual people can only be weak.
There is no one who does not want to be in the company of the excellent, and no one wants to be dragged down by the weak with negative energy.
For those who are strong at heart, the world is beautiful and fair, and there are opportunities everywhere;For the weak, the world is grey and unfair, full of fraud.
Therefore, as a man, you must love yourself well, take care of your health, and live well with your own hands. Keep increasing your chips and go from weak to strong.
As Huang Bo said: "When you are the weakest, there are the most people who bully you, and when you are strong, you are surrounded by good people."
When you are strong, the whole world is kind to you.
May all people of the same frequency in the world meet here. I'm Uncle Hui, thank you for reading.