Many women will feel the same way, that is, on the road to love, they will always meet one or two scumbags. Not only did he give all his love, but he was also hurt to the core.
Some women are more love-minded and more gullible in men's sweet words.
Some women are relatively simple, because she has no experience in love, so she was deceived and abandoned, and thought it was her own problem.
If you are unfortunate enough to meet a scumbag, please don't be too sad, be sure to stop the loss in time, and stop continuing to entangle with the scumbag. Don't use the law of chasing snakes, if you use the law of chasing snakes, then you will take more damage.
So, if we are unfortunate enough to meet a scumbag, how can we "retaliate" against such a person?In fact, the most ruthless way, as long as you do the following, that is the biggest "punishment" for him.
1. Leave with dignity, don't entangle, and ignore each other
Now that he's been discovered, there's no point in staying. If you continue to be with him, you will only get hurt again and again.
You can't change him, and he won't change because of you. The reason why he can hurt you again and again is because he doesn't have you in his heart at all, and he doesn't have compassion for you.
When you know all this, then you have to choose to leave with dignity instead of dwelling with him, because whatever you do, you are just deceiving yourself.
From now on, you have to ignore him, adjust your mentality, and live your life again
2. Remind your friends to stay away
You have left him, please don't forget to remind his friends and tell them the truth about this matter.
The reason why I want you to remind them is not to let other people fall for him, forget if you get hurt, and don't let him affect other female friends anymore.
This kind of person, it is better to let the whole world see his true face, this is the greatest punishment for him. Let everyone see his character and let everyone know how he treated you in the first place.
When the people around him know that he is this kind of person, I believe that many people will leave him and are unwilling to make friends with him, because this kind of person has bad qualities, and friends will stay away from him, and gradually he will become very lonely.
This is what the poor man must hate, even if he doesn't have any friends now, he is to blame and deserves it!
3. Improve yourself and make your emotional intelligence higher
Everything has a reason, and the reason why you meet such a scumbag is because your emotional intelligence is not high enough. You're not as shrewd as those scumbags, and scumbags will be very good at observing you and taking advantage of you.
It's that he thinks you're innocent enough and thinks you're easy to deceive, so he will think of some ways to let you fall into his control.
Therefore, generally speaking, women who have not been in love a few times are still very low in terms of emotional intelligence, and if they are not careful, some scumbags will have a chance.
In fact, the tricks of these scumbags are not very high, but many women are just too in love, can't see the reality clearly, and always live in some longings and fantasies, and they will lose badly.
It is worth reminding that when encountering this kind of scumbag, do not use extreme methods, because not only will it not solve the problem, but it will cause an irreparable situation, and it may also hurt the innocent, which really outweighs the loss.
Now all you have to do is get away from him at once. He will be punished for what he does. You don't have to be in such a hurry, it's just a matter of time.
From now on, you have to love yourself well and start your new life again.
May you meet your lover for the rest of your life and treat you as a treasure.