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Love, the biggest regret is that after hard love, I find that the person is not worthy. The most painful thing in love is to lose someone, only to find that you are missing out on the most worthy person. ”
I think so. It's hard to say that you loved him and thought he was your true destiny, but he hurt you the most and made you feel like the sky was going to fall.
When you love Him with all your heart, He pulls you up to heaven, only to fall from heaven to earth.
Make it irreparable, difficult to save yourself, at this time you only have endless hatred, want revenge, let him go through the same pain.
But in the end, he took revenge, but found that he was not happy at all, which made him physically and mentally exhausted and his heart quenched.
In fact, the most ruthless and extreme ways to take revenge on someone who is sorry for you are these three.
First, reduce losses and stay away from bad guys.
I saw a story about a man who woke up in the middle of the night to find that his wife was missing, and the police searched everywhere but couldn't find it.
While raising his daughter, he continued to search for a full 14 years, and when the daughter grew up, his wife did not hear from him, during which the man suffered a lot.
But suddenly one day, his wife's sister called him, saying that he had found his sister and was admitted to the hospital.
He hurried there, his wife was terminally ill, with a very serious ** disease, he borrowed money everywhere to treat him, and when his wife's condition gradually improved after the operation, he told him that she had not been anywhere in the past few years, but hid in a neighbor's house.
And the wife secretly interacted with the neighbor for 14 years, did not go out during the day, and the reason why she betrayed her husband was because the husband could not live a married life.
However, the wife is now sick and begs for forgiveness from the man, saying that she regrets it and wants to return home, the man remembers that he still loves her and forgives his wife, and as a result, he treats his wife well and returns to the male neighbor.
The man was very angry and asked for a divorce. Like this ungrateful rotten person, there is no need to forgive at all, she will hurt you without restraint with your kindness.
The best way to retaliate against her is to stop the loss in time and stay away from her, you really love her, she doesn't want to, then let her taste the taste of abandonment.
Second, free yourself from hatred.
When a person does something sorry for you, you don't want him to go, you want to take revenge, don't make him feel better.
Unexpectedly, in the following days, you thought about how to get revenge on him all day long, and neglected your own happy life.
You think you're going to make yourself happy as long as you can get revenge on him, but you don't know until the end that even if you get revenge on him, you won't be happy because you've also lost a lot and gained nothing.
The TV series that impressed me the most, the white-haired witch fell in love with a man, but the man didn't love her, fell in love with someone else, the witch hated him to the core, killed the man and woman he loved, but still didn't solve the hatred, and took revenge on their children and made their sons kill each other.
Hatred turned her hair gray overnight, and she lived her life in revenge until she died, never having a happy day.
When the seeds of hatred sprout in the body, if hatred is allowed to grow freely, then it is her own internal consumption.
While she doesn't let go of others, she actually doesn't let go of herself. Since the person you love has done something sorry for you, proving that your love no longer exists, there is no need to struggle anymore and cannot let go.
Because in the face of someone who doesn't love you, no matter what you do, you can't get it back, it's better to stay away from hatred, let go of others, and let go of yourself.
3. Improve yourself and stay away from negative energy.
As the saying goes, living well is the best revenge for those who hurt you.
Don't take revenge in an extreme way against someone who has wronged you, because it's not worth it.
In fact, the most ruthless revenge on him is to improve himself, make himself better and better, more and more shining, and when he sees you again, he will see a different you, and make him regret that he missed a good person.
Just ignore his presence and let him know that you are better off without him than before.
It has been said, "The worst thing the enemy can do to you is to put you in a cage of hatred." ”
Therefore, you have to do your best to get out of this cage, leave the hatred in the cage, and let the liberated you regain your life and start a good life again.
This is the greatest revenge for the person who hurt you.