In today's post, netizens posted and asked, "What should I do if my girlfriend doesn't want to find a job after leaving her job, and wants to do it herself, but it's been more than half a year and she hasn't produced anything?"”
The netizen replied, "As long as she doesn't ask you for money, can you manage it?"
I don't understand what you want, I'm stupid at work, what's wrong with the gap for a while".
I guess I'm used to being squeezed by the company!”
Some people replied more ridiculously: "Let her memorize a 325 and sign a performance improvement plan!."”
Can't you reflect on why you still need a girlfriend to be self-a**?Is it not possible to do it yourself?”
This netizen can ask such a question, and my feeling is: It's too ungentleman. The old men are a little bit responsible. What's wrong with raising your own woman for a few years or a lifetime, not to mention half a year?It's only been half a year before you panic.
In fact, in our traditional concept, men should be the pillars of the family and should earn money to support the family, while women are more of the family's virtuous helpers, husbands and children.
It is not easy for women in the current workplace, they are at a disadvantage in the workplace itself, married without children is already recognized discrimination, plus getting married and having children, raising babies after giving birth, taking care of babies, tutoring children's homework, etc., most of these things are borne by women, and many mothers are full-time mothers in the end. So, it's not a big deal to be unemployed now!
Furthermore, have you considered her feelings?She said that she didn't want to look for a job anymore, did she really not want to look for it, or was the current environment really hard to find?Doing self-a** is just the last retreat?has not improved since ** for more than half a year, she may be more panicked than you, after all, she is not married yet!
It's not easy to start from scratch. Because it's a new field for you. A lot of things have to be learned from scratch.
You brush those short ** on the Internet, it looks quite simple, and I feel like I can do it, but if you really want to do it, you will find that from copywriting to editing to camera movement, to operation, you need to explore and learn step by step!Often because the data is not good, you have to bear a certain amount of psychological pressure!
For example, the big Internet celebrity papi sauce, first of all, her husband has raised her for seven or eight years, and papi sauce has no job and no income for seven or eight years. Since she started to do self-complaining on the Internet, she also persisted for nearly a year before she became popular.
Netizen's girlfriend is actually okay, although she is unemployed, she is not lying down!Work what you want to do, although there is no result for the time being, but self-** is not an overnight thing!
Two people are together in order to walk through life hand in hand, support each other, and understand each other.
It's not just about sharing laughter and joy, it's about facing life's challenges and ups and downs together. It's like fighting together, you don't fight alone, but work together to overcome difficulties.
When the ups and downs of life come, feelings are the strong fortress that can protect each other in the wind and rain. Grow together, work together!
What should be done more is to understand each other, help each other, there is no improvement in half a year, do you help to review together, learn together, and improve together?