When did you all find out that your husband was cheating?
1. Although my husband is vigorous and resolute at work, he is a sloppy man in private, and his clothes are often changed only once in three or four days. But some time ago he changed his clothes very diligently, he said that it was because he had to socialize every day, and his clothes were stained with the smell of tobacco and alcohol, and he came back one night to drink too much, and he took off his clothes and slept without putting the washing machine, I picked up his clothes and smelled them, and a strong smell of perfume came to my nose, and I knew that there were people outside him.
2. My husband was found out about cheating for less than a month, and during that time he became very abnormal, and every day before going home, he would clean up the traces of the use of his mobile phone. He replied that the phone's memory is not enough to run too stuck, so it needs to be cleaned frequently to keep the phone running smoothly. But as time went on, I found that he cleaned his phone too often, almost once a day, although I still looked calm on the surface, but I had already secretly suspected that he had changed the phone card while he was not paying attention. Sure enough, the two of them were in private contact through text messages, and the size of the text messages sent by that woman really made me want to rush to her immediately and slap her a few times.
3. Once when my husband came out of the shower, I found a mark on his neck, which looked like a kiss mark, but he said that he was bitten by an unknown insect when he was working outside. I didn't dig into it at the time, I just told him to pay attention to it in the future. After another week, I noticed that instead of missing the purple marks on his body, there were several more. I didn't put up with it anymore this time, and I had a big fight with him, but he didn't admit that he was cheating from beginning to end, and I secretly investigated and found out that he had already hooked up with a married female colleague.
4. The first time I found out that we were camping in the mountains, his mobile phone fell on the car and I went to help get it, and suddenly a voice message popped up, and a particularly cute girl sent: "Husband, what are you doing". I questioned my husband, and he told me that it was a female netizen in the game we were playing together at the time, and she didn't say a word after adding WeChat, maybe she was joking, and then he blocked her. The second cheating was found by me on the Alipay bill, my husband never likes to charge money when he plays games, but there are nearly 3w game recharge records on the bill, all of which are equipment bought for girls, **The funny thing is that the money is still transferred by me.
Fortunately, in the emotional cases that I have been exposed to for many years, I have seen many men who pretend to be smart, and in order to seek novelty and excitement, they betray their wives who get along day and night. They thought the plan was seamless, but they never thought about how much they would pay after the East Window incident.
In the face of the other party's cheating behavior, sadness and anger are inevitable emotions, but after the emotion, you must stay reasonable, try to collect enough evidence, and don't quarrel with the other party when there is no evidence, which will only make the other party more vigilant, put the protection of self-interest in the first place after the showdown, make up your mind, don't go with the flow, and don't compromise easily.
Don't care about Xiao San's provocation, look at the right time, and get all your money back through legal channels.
In the face of an infidelity marriage, if you still want to continue, then it is particularly important to repair the relationship later, and you can seek a professional to help you analyze the problem and find a solution.