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In a relationship, the biggest pain is to find out that person is not worth it after having loved. I thought he would be able to shelter from the wind and rain, but in the end, all the wind and rain were brought by him.
Love is to put on a beautiful coat, sometimes it is difficult to know whether the person you love is true or false to you, only by opening your eyes to distinguish, you will not meet bad people and let yourself suffer.
Don't easily find these 3 types of people as lovers, it's easy to get into trouble.
One, people who eat soft food.
I saw an intermediary column, my 40-year-old sister was divorced and hurt emotionally, and I thought I would no longer step into love, but I was moved by a young man who was 15 years younger than me.
The young and handsome young man spoke sweetly to the eldest sister, which made the eldest sister a little irresistible, fell in love, and the two officially lived together.
Unexpectedly, the boy had nothing to do all day and didn't want to go out to work, he said that the eldest sister's money was enough for them to spend, and he couldn't find a good job with a low education, it was too hard.
The eldest sister asked him to help him take care of the store, and he only went to do things he didn't want to do for a few days, and he didn't want to do anything except hand over money.
The elder sister saw the boy's incompetence and proposed to break up, but the boy pestered and disagreed, so that the elder sister couldn't even do business, and regretted how blind she was at the beginning.
A man who eats soft rice, he was close to you at the beginning for a long-term meal ticket, this is not true love at all, he only has money in his heart, so he has to firmly grasp this life-saving straw.
Once you encounter a man who eats soft food, it is difficult to get rid of it, so stay away as soon as possible.
2. Grumpy people.
The other day I saw a news ** where a couple went to the clinic and the girl sat listlessly on a stool and the boy seemed to say something to the doctor before turning around and kicking at his sick girlfriend.
The girl was kicked on the ground for a long time and didn't get up, everyone in the comment area called "it's too scary", it makes people feel scared through the screen, it is conceivable that if you live with such a grumpy person, you will not even have a guaranteed life.
A short-tempered person is very unstable, just smiling and laughing, and may change his face with a single sentence, so that you can't grasp his mood.
Living in such an environment, you must always be vigilant and careful.
In one book, I read a story about a wife who lives in fear all day long under her husband's capricious temper. She did not dare to divorce because her husband threatened her family.
But she couldn't stand her husband's daily beating and scolding, and finally couldn't bear to do extreme things, her husband lost, and she also went to prison.
Remember not to contact a grumpy person when you are in a relationship, if you don't know his temper at first, then let time prove it, don't give it too early, because time will show a person's true colors.
3. Dishonest people.
"Wang Manni met the handsome Liang Zhengxian, he talked about Twain Wen'er and was affectionate to her.
Spending a lot in Wang Manni's store, highlighting his economic strength, coaxing Wang Manni to lose her mind with sweet words, feeling that her true destiny will come when she is thirty years old.
The heroine fell into the love net that Liang Zhengxian weaved for her and couldn't extricate herself, and her friends advised her to be careful, but the heroine also told Liang Zhengxian that she was different from other men.
But when the heroine further proposed the relationship between the two, Liang Zhengxian said that he was not married yet.
There is a saying: "Love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan." "If you don't get married, why fall in love?But in the end, I learned that Liang Zhengxian did not agree to marry because he had a fiancée, and he was just playing with Wang Manni, and he was full of Sea King's mercy.
If a man hides something from you, especially a marital history, it's not to be with you forever, just for the freshness, and once long enough, he will ruthlessly turn away and leave you alone to be sad.
When you encounter such a dishonest person, you should leave early, so as not to feed your heart to the dog.
Emotionally, we must learn to think rationally, not just look at appearances, stay away from people who eat soft food, what parasites want him to do, stay away from grumpy people, who will not give you stable days, and also from dishonest people.
If you don't know the man for a while, stretch out the time a little longer, and as long as you look closely, the insincere man will expose his shortcomings.