Have you ever been annoyed that your child's words make you feel uncomfortable?
Family!Who knows!Children have annoying talking Xi that really affects their mood!
I found that my baby always likes to say "then", whether it is a story or a daily chat, you can add several "thens" in a sentence, it sounds really awkward!
Later I learned that many children have such and such speaking Xi habits, such as: stammering, like to interject, inappropriate words, swearing, backmouthing, etc.
Here are some specific cases to share with parents how to help their children correct bad speaking Xi:
When the child stammers:
If the child has stuttering problems, the mother can help them correct it by talking slowly.
For example, a mother can read a storybook slowly with her child so that the child gradually learns the correct speed and intonation.
When kids like to chime in:
Moms can remind their children to wait until others finish speaking before expressing their opinions.
For example, if a child communicates with a child, the mother deliberately interjects to let the child experience the disadvantages of interjection.
When the child speaks too quietly:
If your child is speaking too quietly, mom can encourage them to speak loudly.
For example, a mother can play a game of "shouting loudly" with her child, allowing her to gradually increase his or her voice during the game.
When the child does not speak clearly:
If the child is not speaking clearly, the mother can help them correct it by practicing Xi oral muscles.
For example, parents can let their children blow up balloons, whistle, etc., and these Xi can help children exercise their oral muscles, which can improve the clarity of speech.
When a child speaks too fast:
If the child is talking too fast, the mother can help them correct by speaking slowly.
For example, a mother can read a storybook slowly with her child so that the child gradually learns the correct speed and intonation.
When a child speaks inappropriately:
If a child uses inappropriate words, mom can help them correct by correcting their mistakes.
For example, when a child uses a word incorrectly, parents can point it out and tell them the correct way to use it.
What to do if your child swears and doesn't change his words.
Mothers should gently but firmly tell their children that swearing is a bad Xi. Don't be shocked when you hear your child swearing, but take appropriate action.
For example, we can include "no swearing" in the behavior requirements of the day, so that if we stick to it, it will definitely be corrected.
I suggest that mothers read the picture book "Don't Put Bad Words in School Bags" to their children.
Recommended age: 3 years old and above.
Reason for recommendation: Children and adults have different communication styles, in their communication system, the so-called "swear words" of adults are just a way of expression in their eyes, they do not think that it is swearing, and even think that it is a good word, which can attract the attention of adults or friends.
Therefore, for parents, in the face of this phenomenon, in addition to being psychologically calm, they should also reflect on it.
When the child talks back.
Mothers should firmly tell their children that if you don't like it, you can say it, so that you can't say hurtful things like "I hate you";
For example, if you don't want to, your mother respects you, and we can discuss a plan that we can all agree on
Mom can understand your current mood and accept your emotions, but that's not a reason for you to talk back.
Here are some specific ways to help your child correct bad speaking Xi:
1.Lead by example:
Parents are the most important role models for their children, so parents should pay attention to their words and deeds, use the right language and way of speaking. If the parent is able to do this, the child will also imitate the parent's behavior.
2.Timely correction:
When children have bad speaking Xi, parents should correct their mistakes in time and tell them the correct way to speak. This allows the child to know his mistakes and correct them in time.
3.Practice Xi speaking:
Allowing children to speak and practice more can help them improve their oral expression skills. Parents can practice oral Xi with their children, such as recitation, storytelling, etc.
4.Develop a good sense of language:
A good sense of speech can help children use language correctly. Parents can cultivate their children's sense of language by reading, listening to stories, etc.
5.Encourage your child to express his or her thoughts
Parents should encourage and support their children when they express their ideas. This will give your child a sense of recognition for their ideas, which will boost their self-confidence.
6.Give Positive Feedback:
When children use the right language and way of speaking, parents should give timely positive feedback, such as praise, rewards, etc. This will let your child know that their efforts have been recognized, which will motivate them to continue to maintain good speaking Xi.
In short, parents can help their children correct bad speaking Xi in various ways. The key is to be patient and persistent, constantly encourage and support your child, so that they can gradually develop good speaking Xi.
I am a mother of a six-year-old child, and getting up early to study has not only improved my self-disciplined life, but also made the parent-child relationship more harmonious.