Viny Summer"The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. This is the regret and helplessness in the hearts of many people. When our parents are alive, we are always busy with life and work, but we ignore that they are quietly growing old. Don't wait until you lose to know how to cherish it, take advantage of the present to do five things for them, so that each other's lives will not be regretted. 1. Have more company and let the warmth be transmitted"Companionship is the most affectionate confession. "In a busy life, taking time out to spend with your parents is the simplest and most precious gift. Whether it's having dinner together, walking in the park, or spending time with them and watching their favorite TV series, you can make them feel cared for. This kind of companionship is a bridge for warmth transmission and brings each other's hearts closer. 2. Listen more and understand more"True love is listening. "As the years go by, parents may have many stories and feelings. As children, we should learn to listen to their stories and understand their emotions. This kind of listening is a bond of understanding and allows us to better understand their inner world.
3. Be more concerned and let love flow"Caring is a power that allows love to flow between each other. "In daily life, pay more attention to the physical health, psychological needs and Xi habits of parents. Preparing them a nutritious dinner, reminding them to dress warmly, and paying attention to their interests and hobbies can make them feel loved. This kind of care is a channel for love to flow and make each other's love deeper. Fourth, be more grateful and make cherishing a Xi"Gratitude is a virtue that makes cherishing a Xi. —Pride and Prejudice》Parents have given us so much, and we should learn to be grateful for their parenting grace. In everyday life, use words and actions to express gratitude to them. Such gratitude is the source of cherishing and becoming a Xi, and makes us cherish their efforts even more.
Fifth, have more respect and make each other closer"Respect is a kind of cultivation that brings us closer to each other. "Our parents have different life experiences and values than we do. When dealing with problems, we should learn to respect their opinions and choices. Even if we have different opinions, we should communicate and communicate in a peaceful way. This kind of respect is a bridge that brings each other closer and makes our relationship more harmonious.
Conclusion:Do these five things for your parents while they're still around: more companionship, more listening, more care, more gratitude, and more respect. These seemingly insignificant little things can make each other's lives without regrets. Remember, "Love should be expressed in time, and don't wait until it's lost to regret it." "I hope that every child can cherish and care for their parents with love when their parents are alive, and create beautiful memories for each other together. At the same time, we should also teach our next generation to know how to be grateful and cherish, so that this love can be passed on from generation to generation.