Years after Yang Bin retired, he invited me to his daughter's wedding appreciation banquet. There are very few in the restaurant, and there are only a few retired old leaders and former leaders and drivers of the units I am familiar with. When we chatted, we found that we had completely different concerns and could not have a common topic. I realized that such a banquet was just for the old leader, and I didn't need to pay too much attention to it. In retrospect, they have been away from their jobs for a long time and have long been indifferent to things in the workplace.
PoplarsI held a thank-you banquet for my son, and I thought there would be many guests in attendance. However, as he and his wife were about to quit their jobs and leave the city, many colleagues faced hesitation about whether to attend the banquet. Eventually, many guests were absent and the start of the banquet was constantly postponed. PoplarsThe couple said goodbye to their colleagues, but despite this, they were still anxious and disappointed.
These two cases got me thinking, during workRelationshipsIt's not solid. When we leave the workplace, whether we retire or leave our jobs, we are already vulnerableRelationshipswill collapse instantly. As we grow older, we all face a situation where people go to tea and cool. The relationship between today's colleagues is as thin as paper, and the early realization of this can help us face the gains and losses more calmly, let go of the past ties, and reduce the pressure on our hearts.
After experiencing the above scenes, Yang Bin andPoplarsI have a deeper understanding of people's tea cooling. As we grow older, we will all face a situation where people go to tea and cool. The sooner we understand this, we can face it more calmlyRelationshipsLet go of past obsessions and reduce psychological pressure. After all, colleague relationships at work are only superficial, and what really matters is that we stay connected to our hearts and our families.
From Yang Bin andPoplarsIn the experience, I realized the helplessness and reality of people going to tea. Colleague relationships in the workplace break up quickly after we leave, because they are essentially built on the job. As we get older, we have to face this situation, so recognizing it early is a better way to cope and accept itRelationshipsof the vicissitudes. It is only by staying close to our hearts and building deep relationships with our families that we can truly achieve inner fulfillment and peace.
It's a common phenomenon in the workplace, but that doesn't mean we need to be disappointed or anxious. On the contrary, we should understandRelationshipsIt is changeable, and the only stable relationship is the connection with one's own heart and family. When we recognize this, we can face it more easilylifeand draw strength and wisdom from it.