Is there a moment when you feel the hypocrisy of your in laws, which can make people laugh

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-27

There was once a netizen who shared his mother-in-law's hypocritical behavior, which resonated with many people. According to the netizen's description, the mother-in-law often acts like she misses her grandson very much in front of outsiders and watches it all day longMobile phones's grandson**. However, when invited to help take care of the children, the mother-in-law only cares about lying on the sofa and brushingMobile phones, the care of the child takes less than three minutes. This obvious hypocrisy makes people feel very helpless and laughable.

The story triggered memories for many people, and they began to share all sorts of things they had seenWonderfulThe hypocrisy of the in-laws. Some people think that it may be that they have a bad memory when they are older, and they don't remember whether they really miss their children. There are also people who encounter situations where their in-laws only like their granddaughters but refuse to buy toys for their granddaughters, which makes people feel that it is simply incomprehensible. Some people also shared their in-laws' stingy attitude towards clothing consumption, and they were even reluctant to buy an eight-yuan padded jacket. What's worse is that someone's in-laws would teach their grandson disgusting, biting and other bad behaviors, which is very incredible.

However, there are also some netizens who share the oppositeWonderfulThing. Someone's in-laws actually gave their grandson a hundred red envelopes of 20 yuan, which is really extraordinary. There are also people's in-laws who have nothing to give to their children, and even have resistance to their children. These stories and experiences all highlight the hypocrisy and partiality of the in-laws.

Whether it is the mother-in-law's perfunctory attitude towards her grandson, or the unfair treatment of her granddaughter by her mother-in-law, these hypocritical behaviors undoubtedly make the daughters-in-law feel very angry and disappointed. A netizen also sighed: "My in-laws have begun to avoid people at all when they do eccentric things", this kind of eccentric behavior makes people feel very chilling.

What is even more unacceptable is that some mothers-in-law know that their children do not like to come to her house, but they still ask their children why they don't kiss her, which is extremely hypocritical. This kind of behavior that is superficially well-intentioned but hides a selfish mentality is tantamount to deceiving the feelings of loved ones.

Although some netizens have the idea of changing their minds and regard this behavior as a way to honor their parents, for those daughters-in-law who treat their in-laws sincerely, this kind of hypocrisy is intolerable. After all, daughters-in-law will treat their in-laws with heart and hope to be reciprocated with sincerity.

Through the stories shared by these netizens, we can't help but start to reflect, what caused the hypocritical behavior of these in-laws? Perhaps, some in-laws have to maintain their image in front of outsiders out of face problems, and behave intimately and warmly; At home, they are not willing to give sincere love to their children. Or perhaps, some in-laws are influenced by traditional beliefs that they have done their filial piety, so they do not have much sense of responsibility for their daughters-in-law and grandchildren.

However, this hypocrisy is by no means a long-term solution. If your in-laws really want to be respected and loved by your daughter-in-law and grandchildren, then you should give them genuine care and companionship. Honoring one's parents should not be limited to words, but should be embodied in deeds. It is only through genuine dedication and care that a close and harmonious family relationship can be established.

On this issue, wives can also take the initiative to communicate more with their in-laws and understand their troubles and thoughts. Perhaps, some in-laws show hypocritical faces because of the lack of parent-child communication. Through more communication and understanding, we can gradually build sincere trust with our in-laws and achieve harmony between family members.

In relationships, hypocrisy is undoubtedly intolerable. However, everyone has their ownlifeMethods and values, we can't expect everyone to be as authentic and honest as we are. It is only through understanding, tolerance and inclusion that we are able to build better relationships with those around us.

For those daughters-in-law who have encountered the hypocritical behavior of their in-laws, I hope you can find a suitable way to deal with it, insist on being yourself, and not be disturbed by hypocritical behavior. I would like to take this opportunity to hope that those in-laws can reflect on their own behavior, re-examine their relationship with their daughters-in-law and grandchildren, and sincerely give and care for them, so as to build a more harmonious and happy family. I believe that only through the efforts of both parties can we create a warm and harmonious family environment together.

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