As soon as the semester started, my friends found that Guoguo was not serious about her homework when she went home, and she played with other things after writing for less than 10 minutes, either pouring some water to drink, or going to the toilet. Always write homework at night and take no less than one break in between. At first, I didn't care about it, thinking that after a super long vacation, the child needs an adaptation process, and it will be fine in a few days. Later, I slowly found that the problem of children's friction and procrastination became more and more serious, and the homework of more than 1 hour could be delayed until an hour to be completed, and the mother woke up the child in the morning, and it generally took more than ten minutes to grind. So my friend was anxious, and she said that the most she said to her children every day was:"Hurry up! ", but to no avail. Ask her what she should do to get rid of her child's problems? 
The younger the child, the more important it is to cultivate their independence, many parents like to do it all by hand, before school in the morning, squeeze the child's toothpaste, organize the schoolbag, put breakfast on the table, all the child needs to do is get up, brush his teeth, eat breakfast and go out.
After a long time, it will make the child form a process of ignoring things, and he doesn't have to worry about it anyway, someone will arrange it, and he will definitely not be in a hurry.
There are also parents who like to constantly "command" their children to do things, thinking that their own command can make their children faster, but this is not the case.
The more urging and commanding, the more the child loses the efficiency of doing things, and once the parents are not around, the child will lose the motivation to do things, and immediately stop doing it, or do things slowly.
Many children are actually rebelling against their parents in a grinding way, or trying to get their parents' attention.
In either case, the parents' reaction should not be excessive, and it is necessary to first find out why the child is resisting the urging of the parents, and respect the child's will and feelings.
Because if the child does it on purpose, it means that they already have a personal awareness, and parents need to find out the reason behind the child's friction.
The following three methods are worth learning from.
Time control
For children who usually do things and love to procrastinate, parents should not use scolding to solve, but to put more effort in the early stage, strictly control the child's time, such as half an hour of eating time, from the time the child starts to eat, when the time comes, it is not allowed to eat again, put away all the snacks at home, let him be hungry, hungry a few times, he naturally when eating, he does not dare to ink, writing homework is also, strict control time, when it is time, it is not allowed to write, wait until the school itself to explain to the teacher, or ask the teacher to cooperate, severely criticize a few times, naturally I don't dare.
Set the time
Children's ink is inseparable from two important factors: one is the lack of awareness of bearing the consequences, and the other is the lack of the concept of time. Parents set a good time to do things, and it is recommended to make a timetable for their children and ask them to complete it on time. For example, "You can watch this animation for another ten minutes", and at the same time, if you can't finish it, you can't pull out the seedlings to help them, remember that your purpose is to train the child, not to finish it for the sake of completion. Try to create a focused environment and don't constantly interrupt your child while he or she is focused.
If the child fails to complete the work, the child will bear the consequences. Once good habits are formed, children's lives will naturally become regular.
Note that if you set a timetable for your child, parents must take into account the speed of the child's work, and the difficulty of the matter should be based on the actual age of the child, not to be difficult for the child, otherwise it will be overkill and counterproductive.
Keep your child emotionally and physically energized
Some parents have high requirements for everything, such as letting children wash dishes, children may not be able to wash well several times, and then parents directly wash again in front of their children.
After a few times like this, the child is reluctant to do it again, because the child has to do it again because the parents have to do it again, and the child can't feel the joy of doing things, so the next time the parent lets the child do housework, the child is probably deliberately grinding and not wanting to do it.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, develop good study habits, and develop good time management habits from an early age.