Zeng Guofan once said: "If you are alone, you will lose, and if you are conspiracy, you will vent; Big soft is not soft, to rigid without rigidity. This sentence shows that the key to success lies in the combination of rigidity and softness, knowing how to cooperate and maintaining self-tenacity.
If you profit alone, you will lose, and if you seek to do so, you will vent. This quote tells us that it is difficult to achieve things alone, and that if you are overly dependent on others, you will lose yourself. is like Ma Tan during the Three Kingdoms period, although he was full of military books, he was stubborn and self-serving, and did not listen to the advice of others, which eventually led to the loss of the street pavilion and ended up beheaded. Zhuge Liang, on the other hand, was able to gather the wisdom of everyone and formulate a reasonable strategy, which eventually helped Liu Bei establish the Shu Han regime. Therefore, we must learn to cooperate with others in our lives, be good at listening to others' opinions, but also have our own opinions and not follow the crowd.
Big soft is not soft, to rigid without rigidity. This sentence tells us that true softness is not weakness, but the ability to overcome rigidity with softness at critical moments; And true strength is not blindly tough, but the ability to flex and stretch freely when necessary. Take Gou Jian as an example, he was defeated by Wu Wangfucha in the Battle of Huiji, in order to take revenge, he did not hesitate to lie down and taste the courage, and even personally tasted dung for his husband, and finally succeeded in recovering the country. The reason why Gou Jian was able to succeed was precisely because he knew how to overcome rigidity with softness, waited patiently in the predicament, and finally turned over in one fell swoop.
In real life, we often encounter various difficulties and challenges. Sometimes, we need to be firm in our beliefs and not be shaken by external interference; Sometimes, we need to learn to be flexible and overcome rigidity with softness in order to better solve problems. is like Han Xin endured the humiliation of his crotch and eventually became a generation of famous generals; Just like Zhang Liang was able to go under the bridge and put on shoes for Huangshi Gong, and finally obtained the "Taigong Art of War" to assist Liu Bang in establishing the Han Dynasty.
In short, the combination of rigidity and softness is a kind of wisdom and a realm. On the road of life, we need to know when to be rigid and when to be soft, so as to better cope with various challenges and move towards the other side of success. As Zeng Guofan said: "Great softness is not softness, and there is no rigidity in the extreme." "Let's learn to be strong and soft, and become strong in life.
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