Many parents know the importance of concentration, and improving their children's concentration is better than letting them learn anything. Because, no matter what industry you are engaged in, you need a high degree of concentration and concentration to do research or you can't do anything.
But in real life, many parents have reported that my baby is a three-minute hot baby, and something will be thrown aside after three minutes of play. Some mothers anxiously asked: "Children are always distracted when studying, how can we let children concentrate on learning?" ”
Many parents always think that as long as their children keep doing one thing, they have good concentration.
But in fact, the amount of attention span that can be spent confronted with an object is affected by the age of the child. The younger the age, the shorter the attention span; The older you get, the longer your attention span.
That is to say,Children's attention span increases with age. Of course, it is not excluded that the child will focus on the things he is interested in for a longer time.
But before the age of two, children's attention is dominated by "unintentional" attention, which is involuntary attention to something.
Note that there are strict criteria for the diagnosis of ADHD, and children cannot be labeled as ADHD just because of their poor concentration and restlessness.
Hyperactivity ≠ ADHD, which parents need to understand.
Parents should give their children enough space and freedom, and do not "block them".
For example, many children are very young, and they will have been biting their nails for a period of time, and parents want to correct them if they feel that it is inappropriate, and education experts suggest: do not interrupt her, if you want to correct it, it is better to correct it next time before the child starts biting.
From here, you will find that many parents have been "interrupting" their children by doing bad things with good intentions: the children are playing happily, and the grandfather hands over snacks; The child is having fun with his friends outside, and the mother will remind him that it is time to go home for dinner; There are also many times when the child is reading and doing homework, and the grandmother will suddenly interject and ask questions ......These are all "rude interruptions", first, it is not conducive to the child's concentration on doing things, and second, it is easy for the child to learn to rudely interrupt others.
Accompany the baby to do attention games
For example, Schulte**, walking the maze, retelling the story of numbers, etc., these concentration games are both simple and fun.
In the process of playing, you can also establish a more intimate parent-child relationship
Psychologist Daniel Goleman has said that concentration affects a person's ultimate achievement more than IQ. Therefore, in terms of concentration, parents must remember - protect first and then cultivate! Concentration, sensory integration training, sensory integration disorder, parent school, Lao Yue talks about sensory integration
Do one thing at a time
A person's attention resources are limited, and if assigned to multiple tasks at the same time, it can severely reduce the effective concentration of attention. Therefore, try to avoid the sound of TV and games around your child when he is concentrating on doing things.
In addition, when giving children toys, try to give only one at a time, and having too many toys at hand will also affect your child's concentration.
Improving concentration is a relatively common but very effective method. If a person can sit intently and read a book for 2 hours without distractions, then the effect will be higher than studying casually in the morning. This is because the focus gives the child a better memory environment.
Don't interrupt your child when writing homework, try to solve it at one time when you endorse it, don't procrastinate, similar practices are very common in life, but they are easy to be ignored by us.
Nowadays, many parents are focusing on cultivating their children's concentration, memory, etc., because memory, concentration and observation are important abilities for children's future learning and improving intelligence. It is very helpful for the child's future.
The ages of 2-8 years are a critical period for a child's brain development. At this time, improving your child's memory, concentration or logical thinking skills can do more with less.
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