The more I grew up, the more I realized that human nature cannot stand the test. I went through something today, and as a bystander, I already felt the destructiveness. It is not shy to say that people like to go with the flow the most, when some people target a weak person, other people will inexplicably join the team of the so-called strong person, and target the weak person together, regardless of whether they have been friends with the weak person or not. As if they didn't do that, they would also be marginalized.
Carnegie's life wisdom is hidden in the book "Human Weaknesses", and each skill is detailed and practical, accompanied by case studies, and is regarded as the supreme treasure trove of social psychology and communication skills.
Dale Carnegie, who devoted his life to the study of human nature, made this classic in the best language and with the most practical content, and it became the most enduring humanities bestseller in the Western world, and it still shines today.
The world's first book on success", "the world's best-selling, the most classic, the most practical reference book for people". These evaluations, which are so high that they don't sound true, not only arouse the curiosity and interest of readers, but also help countless people get out of the predicament.
So how do you effectively influence others in the process of interacting with others, and how do you defeat the natural enemy of human existence - anxiety, and create the different life you want?
Don't ask yourself what choice you have to make? Instead, you should ask yourself what kind of result you can achieve through this choice, the choice is not to give up adversity, choose good times, not to give up pain, choose sweetness, and not to give up heavy and choose easy. In short, the choice is not to avoid the important and light, when you make a solemn choice, no matter what kind of setbacks and difficulties you face, you must stick to the goal in your heart.
Show off your wealth
In fact, the more a person has nothing, the more he will show off something.
We usually have people around us who like to show off their wealth, and for this kind of person, there is nothing to pursue in life other than money.
We must know that the level of a person is not measured by money, but by one's own cultivation. Those who have money do not necessarily have a high income, but are hated by those around them. Because the more you like to show off, the more you will be remembered by the people around you, and you can't get happiness and satisfaction in such days.
Why did Carnegie put seeing the facts in such a big place?
The reason why the problems that plague us cannot be solved, and the inability to see the facts clearly are important influencing factors. Unless you can see the facts clearly, solving the problem is an empty word, see the facts clearly, light the way forward in the chaos, and avoid groping in the chaos.
Not having enough knowledge to make decisions is the most common problem encountered, and most of the anxiety is caused by it. So, instead of spending more time dwelling on how to make a decision, instead of thinking about the different consequences of comparing the choices that will be decided, it is better to spend time looking for the facts of the problem, and when you see all the facts, the problem is generally solved.
Respect for the opinions of others (Show respect for the opinions of others.) Don't say "you're wrong").
If you point out the mistakes of others too bluntly, no matter how good your opinion is, it will not be accepted and even hurt a lot.
In these fast-paced times, we always focus on relationships. Friends can help you solve many things. If you have few friends, learn how to communicate with people from Human Weakness.
There are 5 books in this book, "The Weakness of Human Nature", each of which is a wisdom book that is of great help to the workplace and life, and it can be said that as long as you take out one of them, it will be a book that will benefit you for life.
"The Weakness of Human Nature" Why the more I grow up, the more I find that human nature cannot stand the test
It is often said that the ignorant are fearless, which inevitably means mockery. Human ignorance is forgivable, even endearing, at a certain stage, but beyond that one should be wary of.
Some things must be learned slowly, from the beginning of not knowing the height of the sky, to the final knowledge of the world, knowing the world, and fading away from innocence, so that you can not be frightened. The ignorance of childhood is cute, and the ignorance of teenagers is ridiculous; The ignorance of youth is pitiful; The ignorance of middle age is lamentable, the ignorance of old age is pathetic, may you and I only be lovely.
The wisdom that Guiguzi left us is far more than that. Just like Guiguzi himself, "Guiguzi" is a strange book in the axial era of human civilization. Its ideological content is rich, covering philosophy, politics, military, psychology, society, literature, intelligence and other disciplines, and it is a work that can be widely interpreted.
In fact, after watching "Guiguzi", many people will be surprised to find that the usual communication skills and unspoken rules mentioned by Mr. "Guiguzi" thousands of years ago are very clear. Suppose you reach middle age and are still confused and worried about your livelihood, then Guiguzi is the book you must read.
There are five books in this book, Guiguzi, each of which is a wisdom book that is of great help in the workplace and life. It can be said that as long as you take out one of them, you will benefit for life.
Only when I saw "Guiguzi" did I know that if you meet a pig, don't talk to him about ideals, because you only know feed.
Reading "Wolf Road" only to know that people who are not used to it, don't care, and laughing are the best counterattacks.
After reading Murphy's Law, I realized that nothing is as simple as it seems, and the more afraid you are, the more you are afraid that anything will happen.
When I saw "Parchment Roll", I realized that when the heart is big, things will be small. The heart is broad-minded, and the worries disappear.
After reading "The Weakness of Human Nature", I realized that there are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun and the other is the heart.
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