Education is a double-edged sword, parents are educating their children at the same time, but also in the process of self-improvement, usually parents in the education of children, they like to take "other people's children" as an educational example, and theseMost of the "children of other people's families" in the mouths of parents are good students with excellent character and learning
As the saying goes: there is no harm if there is no comparison, and parents will be more likely to find the shortcomings of their children through the strong contrast between their own children and "other people's children", especially in terms of concentration.
Nowadays, many parents usually adopt the form of verbal violence or force, and such parents believe that only when children know the word "fear" from the bottom of their hearts will the children remember and correct their mistakes.
Lack of parental companionship
Companionship is the most beautiful love words of parents to their children, no matter how old the children are, they are always extremely concerned about the companionship of the family.
Most parents who often accompany their children attach great importance to family education, and promote their children's all-round development through some daily family games or other interactions, which naturally also includes training for children's concentration; On the contrary, children who lack the company of their parents since childhood are not only lonely in their hearts, but also because their parents neglect their children's family education, it is extremely detrimental to the comprehensive development of children, including the cultivation of concentration.
Lack of interest
Interest is the premise of success, forcing children to do things that they are not interested in, then children will naturally not be able to invest 100% enthusiasm and concentration when doing things.
Many parents love some celebrity parent-child programs in their spare time, as if they are observing how celebrity parents educate their children, and even after **, parents do not forget to sigh: Why are other people's children so good? In fact,The main reason why the children of celebrities are good is because everything they learn stems from their own interests
Because of love, there will be passion, if the child does not even have passion to do something, then how can the child concentrate?
Parents may not be off work when their child is out of school, but it doesn't matter, you always have a way to have a conversation with your child.
Spend 10 minutes a day planning homework with your child. First find out the total amount of homework your child has for the day, then allocate time according to the total amount, and then allocate it reasonably according to the difficulty of your child's homework. Specifically, there are a few suggestions:
1.Divide your child's homework into 15-20 minutes to complete a unit so that your child is not very stressed.
2.Depending on the difficulty of the child's homework, from easy to difficult (according to the characteristics of the child), some children like to overcome the difficult problems first, or they can go from difficult to easy, and let the children choose the order of completion.
3.When the child can successfully complete the assignment according to the arrangement, remember to give the child enough affirmation and encouragement, when the parents can stick with the child for a period of time, the child will be able to master the rules of time allocation, and they will be able to arrange their homework more actively.
During the time spent planning with the child, parents should hold a magnifying glass to observe and study the child's progress.
When the child can correct himself little by little, the efficiency and quality of homework can be improved little by little, especially when you can notice the child's progress, and give great affirmation and encouragement, your child will reap "pride + happiness + trust + security", which is the sense of achievement that cannot be described in words.
And a child's progress depends to a large extent on a sense of achievement. And getting the affirmation of our parents is even the direction of our life's efforts.
I want my mom and dad to see my efforts;
I want my mom and dad to have a better life because of my efforts;
I want my family because I want to be admired and envied by those around me;
Although the word "good child's teacher" is not good, it is really important to communicate well with the teacher on the way of the child's growth.
Your child may also have certain roles in the school and class, such as sports committee, class representative, health committee, group leader, etc., but there are always some "jobs" that can help your child improve the efficiency and quality of homework.
For example, your child is responsible for checking the homework of a certain subject, reading aloud, reciting, writing, any subject, once the child gets such an opportunity, they will take the initiative to ask themselves to do it first, do it well, and then they can "confidently" manage their classmates.
Improving concentration is a relatively common but very effective method. If a person can sit intently and read a book for 2 hours without distractions, then the effect will be higher than studying casually in the morning. This is because the focus gives the child a better memory environment.
Don't interrupt your child when writing homework, try to solve it at one time when you endorse it, don't procrastinate, similar practices are very common in life, but they are easy to be ignored by us.
Nowadays, many parents are focusing on cultivating their children's concentration, memory, etc., because memory, concentration and observation are important abilities for children's future learning and improving intelligence. It is very helpful for the child's future.
The ages of 2-8 years are a critical period for a child's brain development. At this time, improving your child's memory, concentration or logical thinking skills can do more with less.
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