The New Year of 2024 has passed, but I don't feel any New Year's flavor and happiness! On the contrary, I am tired and troubled, I don't know if everyone has the same as me? I feel like there is something missing for the New Year, except for New Year's greetings, which is to give gifts, and then it is to eat and drink and pretend to be happy, to be honest, it is more ......tiring than going to work
Because I am a post-80s generation, I have become a middle-aged uncle in a blink of an eye, and the title makes me obviously feel that I am no longer young, I used to be a small Zhilong and a Xiaozhi, and now I have become "Lao Cao" and "Brother Zhi", and it is a kind of envy to see the new little girls and young men in the unit, because I was the same as them at the beginning! But what about now? Time is really the cruelest thing, I can't help but feel that the years are unforgiving!
Occasionally look in the mirror and find that we have a few more gray hairs or become vicissitudes, all of which have been smoothed out by life, and many times have become helpless, and can no longer see the immature and lively smiling face, but has become a sleek and hypocritical "mask face", we have restrained our youth and frivolity, and began to be cautious in behaving and doing things, because the world is sinister and people's hearts are unpredictable!
Middle age is another stage of our life, is the real experience of life perception of the first period, carrying the old and young, in life, family, work, emotional struggle and wandering, really taste the taste of life, the hardships of work, the cumbersomeness of the family, emotional changes, and we have to be strong, because life continues, the responsibility and mission of the body has not been completed!
Reaching middle age is not only our age, but also the constraints of life and the face of crises, such as physical health, family burdens, marital status, and work situation are all challenges ......Therefore, people to middle age is the real test of life, because a clearer understanding of life, facing life, is also necessary for growth and experience, people to middle age with the encounter, everything with the fate, do yourself, go with the flow! Less the beauty of youth, more realistic cognition, live well!
So now many people have a "New Year's phobia", in fact, now I am also afraid of the New Year, one is because it is too troublesome, one is because of economic expenses, and the other is because I am one year older, no longer as I was as looking forward to and happy as when I was a child, this is life, there are too many things to change, there is no longer the taste of childhood, and I can no longer find the self I once was! And all these changes are caused by time, which makes us grow up and grow old, and makes us have a different understanding of the perception of the New Year! I don't know what everyone thinks about the Chinese New Year now?