In the world of "Mansion Gate", the confrontation between the second grandmother and Yang Jiuhong was doomed from the moment she knew the existence of the other party. No matter how others praised Yang Jiuhong, the second grandmother always stubbornly thought that she was an immodest woman and unworthy of entering the door of the Bai family. Huang Chun, as the daughter-in-law of the second grandmother, according to common sense, should be an enemy of Yang Jiuhong in order to please her mother-in-law. However, surprisingly, Huang Chun was very friendly to Yang Jiuhong, and even called her a good sister.
Some people believe that this is because Huang Chun has a pure personality and is generous, so he can accept Yang Jiuhong. But I don't think so. How can a woman, no matter how simple and kind, be indifferent to her husband's intimacy with other women? Huang Chun's kindness to Yang Jiuhong has a deeper reason behind it.
After Bai Jingqi's father died, Bai Jingqi rushed back to Beiping. One night, he had a conversation with Huang Chun, revealing the reasons behind Huang Chun's attitude towards Yang Jiuhong.
Huang Chun asked, "Why don't you take Yang Jiuhong over as well?" ”
Bai Jingqi said dejectedly: "Mom won't let her enter this house." ”
Huang Chun asked in surprise, "Really?" Why don't I go talk to my mother? ”
Bai Jingqi was a little impatient: "You don't have to come to this set of fake virtues, don't worry about it!" ”
Huang Chun asked again: "Is she beautiful?" ”
Bai Jingqi replied: "Prettier than you." ”
Hearing this, Huang Chun couldn't help crying: "Of course I'm prettier than me, what am I!" I'll be with my son from now on. You have been out there for three years, you can have as much fun as you want, where do you know that there is me! ”
Bai Jingqi hurriedly comforted her: "Don't cry, don't cry, I think there is no more beautiful than you in this world." ”
Huang Chun put away his tears and smiled: "You go find someone else, and change your taste." ”
This conversation seems to be a daily small talk between husband and wife, but it inadvertently reveals a lot of information. Although Bai Jingqi has not publicly married Yang Jiuhong as his aunt's wife, the people in the mansion have long known about it, even Huang Chun is no exception. It is difficult for a woman to tolerate another woman in her husband's heart, and Huang Chun is no exception. That's why she asked Bai Jingqi about Yang Jiuhong with vinegar. When she was sure that the second grandmother did not agree with Yang Jiuhong entering the mansion, and when she saw Bai Jingqi's helpless expression, she knew that her position as the main mother had been stabilized. In the Bai family, there is a pivotal figure, and that is the second grandmother. All matters in the family are up to her, and no one dares to confront her, even the arrogant Bai Jingqi is also in front of her. The second grandmother's decisiveness made it impossible for Yang Jiuhong to step into the Bai family for half a step, and Huang Chun was at ease from then on.
Huang Chun's heart was originally turbulent, because Bai Jingqi had been away from home for three years and had never cared about her and her children. But her grievances only turned into a light sigh and did not dare to delve into it. She knew very well that the time of separation from Bai Jingqi for three years had already created a deep affection between Bai Jingqi and Yang Jiuhong. The dispute at this time would only push Bai Jingqi into Yang Jiuhong's arms. Since he could not match Yang Jiuhong in terms of beauty, Huang Chun decided to conquer Bai Jingqi with a tolerant and generous mind.
Huang Chun also has a son Bai Jingye, and the needs of her children make her unable to be completely indifferent to Bai Jingqi. coaxed Bai Jingqi to be happy and became her first choice, because the benefits outweighed the disadvantages. Originally, she thought that Yang Jiuhong was just a woman with Bai Jingqi outside, and it was not worth her to be jealous of a woman she had never met. However, Yufen brought Yang Jiuhong and her daughter to Beiping, which complicated things.
Huang Chun once asked Bai Jingqi how to deal with this situation and whether he should confess everything to his second grandmother. Bai Jingqi's answer was helpless and discouraged: "Can this be explained?" My cousin wants to play a play, but my mother won't recognize it. Huang Chun asked unwillingly: "Then when we were kicked out, Yufen took me back, didn't my mother admit it?" Bai Jingqi was speechless, and could only sigh: "Can Jiuhong compare with you?" Okay, Jinan stays well, why bother? ”
Huang Chun is the biological daughter of Da Gege and Wu Beile of Zhan Wangfu, although Da Gege gave birth to Huang Chun before marriage, and sent her to the countryside for adoption, but her status is noble and her conduct is good. is completely different from a dusty woman like Yang Jiuhong. Although Yang Jiuhong was sold into the kiln by her brother and sister-in-law, she was no longer innocent.
From Bai Jingqi's handling of Yang Jiuhong's affairs, Huang Chun could see that he was dissatisfied with Yang Jiuhong's coming to Beiping with his daughter this time. Coupled with the resolute opposition of the second grandmother, even if Yang Jiuhong has the heart to enter the gate of the Bai family, I am afraid it will be even more difficult. In the Bai family's mansion, the entanglement of emotion and status is like a complex silk thread, intertwined into a drama of life. Yang Jiuhong, a woman ruthlessly manipulated by fate, although talented, it is difficult to find a place in the house. Faced with such a woman who was not in direct competition with him, the hostility in Huang Chun's heart gradually dissipated, and was replaced by a kind of tolerance and understanding.
Huang Chun knew that if the second grandmother accepted Yang Jiuhong and the child, her status might be threatened, and the harmony and stability in her life might be broken. But now, with the clear attitude of the second grandmother and Bai Jingqi, Huang Chun's heart is like a mirror, and her and her son's position in the Bai family has been stabilized. This stable position also gave Huang Chun a sense of security, so that she had enough confidence to treat Yang Jiuhong well.
And her kindness to Yang Jiuhong is not only because of understanding and tolerance. People are terrible, and Huang Chun knows the importance of a good reputation in such a mansion. She treated Yang Jiuhong with her generosity and kindness, not only won praise from everyone for herself, but also created a tolerant and benevolent image for herself. She understands that this kind of image shaping not only helps to stabilize her position, but also invisibly dissolves the hostility and jealousy hidden in the shadows.
When Huang Chun first saw Yang Jiuhong, her demeanor was down-to-earth and generous, even with a little naughty vinegar. She smiled and asked Yaping, "She's more handsome than me, right?" Yaping replied with a smile: "Handsome than you, no wonder the seventh master saw her, as if he had no soul." And when Yang Jiuhong saw Huang Chun for the first time, he seemed a little flustered. She tripped over the threshold and almost fell, and then knelt down to Huang Chun again. This move made Huang Chun clear in his heart: Yang Jiuhong knew his identity and status.
In front of Huang Chun, Yang Jiuhong did not put on the show of his aunt's wife, let alone be aggressive towards his aunt's wife Yang Jiuhong like the girl Xiangxiu. Yang Jiuhong's respect for Huang Chun made Huang Chun understand that she didn't want to compete with herself. This made Huang Chun's heart feel a sense of relief, because whether a person can win a reputation and whether she is willing to fight are two different things.
In addition, Huang Chun also had low self-esteem because of his identity. But now with Yang Jiuhong as the object of comparison, she finally found her superiority. Although her mother is unmarried and pregnant, and her father is uneducated, at least her identity is cleaner than Yang Jiuhong. Since the two are destined to serve a husband together, and Huang Chun's position will not be shaken, why doesn't she have to be kind to Yang Jiuhong and win a good reputation for her generosity?
Huang Chun treated Yang Jiuhong decently and generously. In the middle, there are her means of dealing with the world, as well as her true feelings. As a reader, although I can see Huang Chun's jealousy when facing Yang Jiuhong, she is generous and decent, and she really has the demeanor of being a housewife. No one in the Bai family has ever said that Huang Chun is not a word. It can be seen that Huang Chun has his own wisdom in the interpersonal relationship of the mansion. In that complicated world, there was a woman with a pure heart, and all her actions were seen as simple, because people said she had no scheming. But only by looking closely can you understand her shrewdness. As a woman, she knows the suffering of other women. Huang Chun, this seemingly ordinary woman, has wisdom that people can't ignore.
Huang Chun's past is full of ups and downs. In her early years, she toiled in the countryside and gradually weakened. Ill-fated, she was adopted by the third master in the church, but the turmoil of the court made her spend half a year in the cellar in a cold and damp life. This experience left her physical condition deteriorating. Later, she became pregnant with a child, but her vitality was damaged because of this, and her physical weakness became more and more serious.
The second grandmother once asserted that Huang Chun's body was weak and obviously could not live long. In order to find a reliable assistant for herself, she decided to keep the acacia flower by her side and planned to marry the acacia flower to Bai Jingqi before her death. Huang Chun knew that Bai Jingqi was in the prime of life, and her body could no longer withstand more tribulations, so she needed someone to share it. She understood what Yang Jiuhong meant to Bai Jingqi, and treating Yang Jiuhong well was obviously a wise choice.
Huang Chun's philosophy of life is more transparent than Yang Jiuhong's. She knows that in Bai Jingqi's heart, career always comes first, and women are just the embellishments in his life. It is impossible for her and Yang Jiuhong to become the end of Bai Jingqi, since this is the case, why compete for the top?
The relationship between Huang Chun and Yang Jiuhong has also become closer because of the child. When Huang Chun and Yaping showed Yang Jiuhong's child to the second grandmother, the second grandmother refused to return the child. Huang Chun felt very guilty about this, after all, the child was taken away by her and Yaping, which led to the separation of Yang Jiuhong's mother and daughter. However, Yang Jiuhong understood Huang Chun and Yaping's situation very well and never blamed them. This empathy made Huang Chun appreciate Yang Jiuhong even more.
Although Huang Chun and Yang Jiuhong serve a husband together, it is not easy to meet such a reasonable woman. As a result, Huang Chun's attitude towards Yang Jiuhong became more friendly. Her kind nature makes her never calculate others, and everything she does is for the sake of the big picture and does not want to cause trouble to others. When others are willing to treat her well, she naturally reciprocates the same kindness.
After the child was taken away, even Yuting felt unbearable for the second grandmother's behavior. As a mother, Huang Chunneng deeply understands Yang Jiuhong's pain. This ordinary woman uses her kindness and wisdom to interpret an extraordinary attitude to life. Huang Chun and Yang Jiuhong: Two women whose fates are intertwined.
Huang Chun and Yang Jiuhong seem to be two women whose fates are entangled. They share a fate full of twists and turns, and many things are involuntary. However, in the turbulent waves of life, Huang Chun was luckier than Yang Jiuhong. She is able to take care of her children herself, making sure that they are well fed, clothed and accompanied by the warmth of their mother. Despite the hardships of life, Huang Chun has always been tenacious and guards the family with his mother's love.
In contrast, although Yang Jiuhong is materially rich and her daughter lives a rich life after being taken away, the lack of maternal love has become an irreparable wound in her heart. Although Bai Jingqi gave her a rich material life, he could not make up for the emptiness of her soul. His incomprehension and indifference undoubtedly exacerbated the bitterness of Yang Jiuhong's life.
Because they are both women, Huang Chun and Yang Jiuhong can better understand each other's suffering. Huang Chun's understanding of Yang Jiuhong does not stem from jealousy, but from that resonance with life. She understands that in this complex world, everyone has their own helplessness and struggles.
In dealing with the relationship with Yang Jiuhong, Huang Chun showed great wisdom. She took the initiative to show favor to Yang Jiuhong, sending a signal to the outside world that she and Yang Jiuhong were living in peace. This not only won her respect from the Bai family, but also got Bai Jingqi to treat her differently.
I remember that once, Yang Jiuhong was bedridden to recuperate due to pregnancy, and Huang Chun comforted her softly beside her, telling her to take good care of herself and be less angry. At this time, Bai Jingqi was busy with affairs and rarely found time to visit. But fate always seems to be joking at critical moments, just when Huang Chun and Yang Jiuhong were talking happily, Bai Jingqi unexpectedly walked in with something. Seeing this, Huang Chun quietly left under the pretext of taking care of the children, leaving the couple with a private space. Who's to say that this is not Huang Chun's wisdom? While she is jealous, she also knows how to grasp her husband's heart.
After that, Yang Jiuhong returned to Beiping after a miscarriage and complained that Bai Jingqi rarely stepped into her room. And Bai Jingqi's night stayed more in Huang Chun's house. Huang Chun is tolerant and generous, silently guarding his family and love. In that flowery mansion gate, Sophora is a character who is ignored by everyone, but it has a subtle connection with everyone's fate. She is not the protagonist, but she witnesses the joys and sorrows in the door of that mansion in a special way. Huaihua is the person next to the old lady, although she is dissatisfied with Yang Jiuhong in her heart, she has always been wise to protect herself and does not want to get involved in any right and wrong. Her neutral attitude allowed her to settle down in the turbulent mansion.
However, Yang Jiuhong poured out her dissatisfaction with the second grandmother on Huaihua. This kind of unprovoked anger made Bai Jingqi, who originally had a good impression of Yang Jiuhong, begin to be dissatisfied with her. He felt that Sophora had changed and was no longer as empathetic as before. In fact, Sophora has never changed, only the people and things around her have changed.
If Yang Jiuhong could treat the acacia flowers as generously as Huang Chun, maybe the result would be different. In that way, Xiangxiu would have no chance to take advantage of, and even if she had, it would be difficult to become the wife in Bai Jingqi's heart. However, Xiangxiu skillfully used Yang Jiuhong's small belly chicken intestines, which made Bai Jingqi more and more disgusted with Yang Jiuhong, and even didn't want to look at her again.
If Yang Jiuhong can be as generous as Huang Chun, even if Xiangxiu has the intention to sow discord, she can only sing a one-man show. Because Bai Jingqi can see through her careful thoughts. The existence of Huang Chun made everyone see another possibility for dealing with emotional problems. In the mansion, if you want to keep your position, you can't repay your eyes, you must repay your grievances with virtue. It was with this generosity and tolerance that Huang Chun became a well-deserved candidate for wife in Bai Jingqi's heart, and was able to spend his life in the Bai family peacefully.
In general, Huang Chun treated Yang Jiuhong well, not only out of her own small calculations, but also showed her great wisdom. This is something that Yang Jiuhong will never learn in his life. In the complex world of the mansion gate, everyone has their own way of survival. And Huang Chun's wisdom and pattern enabled her to win the final victory in this competition of life.