Everyone has a love for beauty.
If there is no special reason, women all over the world want to be beautiful, marry a good man, and live a beautiful life.
Reality tells us that many women are good-looking, but they don't do anything well, and they will even be labeled as "miserable people".
Today, I will talk to you about how much influence the matter of dressing up has on the fate of women.
A woman who doesn't know how to dress up is hard to love.
There is an idiom called raising the case and raising eyebrows.
In the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a woman named Meng Guang, who looked very ordinary, but she told the people around her that she wanted to marry Liang Hong, a celebrity at that time.
Liang Hong's family is not rich and has no status, but he has a good character and is very liked by his parents and fellow villagers. When he knew Meng Guang's thoughts, he agreed to the marriage.
What is puzzling is that after getting married, Liang Hong was lukewarm to Meng Guang.
It turned out that Meng Guang thought that men like glamorous women, so she wore satin clothes and applied rouge powder. Her outfit happened to be what Liang Hong hated. In his bones, Liang Hong likes simple women.
After some observation, Meng Guang changed his dress, and then lived in seclusion with her husband and became a fairy couple.
Women should understand a truth, "dressing up" is not the same as wearing heavy makeup, not wearing gorgeous clothes, not pleasing the men around them, but according to different family situations, external environment, family relationship patterns, etc., adjust their words and deeds, properly dress up their appearance, and increase the attractiveness of life.As said in "Caigen Tan": "The poor family sweeps the floor, the poor girl combs her hair, although the scenery is not gorgeous, her bearing is elegant." ”
It doesn't matter if you are poor and your appearance is not outstanding, if you can dress up, then you will lose your demeanor, and anything may backfire.
First of all, the sloppy appearance will be disgusting. Whether it's work or life, it's easy to be isolated.
Then, although the nondescript dress can cause a high rate of turning heads, others will find it strange and dare not approach. Therefore, it is very difficult for a woman to succeed. Even if someone is willing to approach, most of them are coming for something unserious.
Finally, women who never dress up, relatively speaking, are more pessimistic and don't have much confidence in themselves. A woman who always bows her head and doesn't dare to look at people, even if she is in love, will be looked down upon and has no attractiveness.
If a woman can't meet someone she likes, she doesn't have her own driving force, and if she wants to change her fate, there is the possibility of "internal and external difficulties".
Learning to dress up is the beginning of changing your fate.
Yang Guifei in the Tang Dynasty was a recognized beauty. Most people believe that she attracted many people by virtue of her appearance and was favored by the emperor. In fact, aside from her appearance, you should also see the fact that she is a "** family and dancer".
After Yang Guifei was favored, the ministers believed that the emperor had abandoned his career because of her beauty, so they refused to salute her.
The emperor was so angry that he ordered his ministers to make amends. As a result, the ministers had to salute Yang Guifei. Because Yang Guifei likes to wear pomegranate skirts, she left an allusion of "bowing down under the pomegranate skirt".
It can be seen from this that Yang Guifei's ability to look good is inseparable from dressing. Some people also believe that in order to make her beauty last, Yang Guifei pays attention to light makeup and light sweeping, showing natural beauty, paying attention to food, bathing, etc.
There is a local saying in the countryside: "Eighteen changes in women's colleges." ”
In the process of growing up, women become more and more beautiful, and their fate also changes. Those fickle women, conformists, are easily eliminated by society.
Specifically, there are several ways to change the fate of a woman who can dress up.
First, it will save money.
It costs money to dress up, but it is even more important to save money. Even because of dressing, it brings a lot of wealth. It's not what we think, dressing up is "spending money constantly".
In ancient times, women weaved at home and made exquisite clothes, not only to dress themselves up, but also to provide for their families. A piece of yarn can be turned into clothes or decorations on the head, which are the embodiment of saving money and making money.
Second, dexterity.
Dressing up is an art.
For example, a long hair can be draped or pulled up, and a headdress can be inserted.
The style of the bun, the transformation of old things at home, raising flowers, sewing clothes, and insoles are all true manifestations of dressing up. If a woman doesn't have a little wisdom, she really can't do it.
A woman who can dress up, with a clever mind. It is the embodiment of changing one's destiny on one's own.
Third, have personality.
As the saying goes, "A good-looking look is the same, and an interesting soul is one in a thousand." ”A woman who really knows how to dress up is not a "Dong Shi Xiaofeng", but to highlight her personality and make herself stand out from the crowd.
When a woman learns the art of dressing up, she is better at "tailoring" rather than living as a "popular" person. Her personality can be extended to career, family, wealth management, etc.
Fourth, be more confident.
If you've ever been to an interview, you've definitely embraced ideas like "dress up, be confident." A woman who goes to an interview in high spirits has a greatly increased probability of success.
Sister Furong, an Internet celebrity, said: "Enrich your strength, don't be afraid of any opponent, face difficulties, play confidently, do your best, and you will be invincible." ”
From being ridiculed to being envied, Sister Furong used practical actions to show the fact that self-confidence changes fate.
He Zhu, a poet of the Northern Song Dynasty, said: "I remember the green Luo skirt, and the grass is everywhere." ”
He misses his wife again and again, and every time he misses it, he thinks of how she dressed. It can be seen that his wife is very happy at home, and she also has a good face in front of outsiders.
It's not so much that marriage changes fate, it's better to dress up to change fate - if you are good, others will be good to you.
Under the same blue sky, at the same age, but the fate of women is very different. If you are a person who has a hard life, don't complain, most likely because of the chain reaction caused by your own lack of goodness.
Women, dress up well, good luck comes naturally, don't know it's too late.
One white covers a hundred ugliness, and one beauty makes good luck.