Text: A flower demon.
Today's online has a new division of people in love: blank paper and newspapers.
The former refers to people who have no experience in love at all, while the latter refers to people who are in a relationship frequently.
Most people will definitely want to choose the former, which is why some people will hide their relationship history.
By the time you find out, you'll be reluctant to leave him, and his purpose will be achieved.
Just as there was a hot search "Zhangjiajie bride" before, everyone was criticizing this woman, just because she was too casual and had intimate contact with other members of the opposite sex before marriage.
Therefore, it is extremely important to distinguish whether a person is casual or not, and whether a woman is very "casual" can be seen from the details, obviously.
1. Dress up very boldly
Normal women are hindered by the influence of traditional thinking and will not dress themselves up too boldly.
Although the "freedom of dress" is now admired, the freedom to dress also has to be measured, and some people dress inappropriately and boldly enough to be a little too offensive.
I remember for a while, everyone was very interested in the question of dressing.
At first, Xu Jiao, who had played "Yangtze River No. 7", took a set of swimsuit photos of her child at the beach, who expected to be sprayed by many people, but from another point of view, what should you wear without a swimsuit on the beach?
thought that this matter would subside after a while, but then there were tens of millions of Internet celebrities who were dressed very "boldly" and kept saying that now is the era of freedom of dressing, and this matter was taken out again.
Indeed, dressing can be free, but being too bold and inappropriate to dress is to expose their "casualness".
With the fermentation of this matter, this tens of millions of Internet celebrities gradually withdrew from everyone's field of vision.
Her casualness also made her reputation that she had so hard accumulating fall to the ground in an instant.
2. Don't know how to love yourself
Some women can really only be described as "coming and going when they are called".
They don't love themselves, and men give whatever they want, so much so that later they themselves feel numb.
I remember watching a movie "Wading in the Sea of Anger" before, and the girl in it was very casual because of the lack of love.
Casually fall in love with a man, casually sell your body, and hurt yourself casually.
She is a very casual person, she has been in contact with many men, she is humble and crazy.
As someone said: "In fact, we don't know love at all, we don't even know how to love ourselves, so we say we love others." ”
They are pitiful, but they are also hateful.
All endings have corresponding causes, and their casualness leads to their inability to love someone well, so they are always hurt the most.
3. Be familiar with the love process
There is a buddy who pursues a girl, and the buddy is a very simple person, and he has never been in love, so he always pursues a girl carefully.
When they got along for more than half a month, they went to watch a movie, and after the movie, the girl took the initiative to invite her buddies to take a walk together, obviously the two were very dramatic.
In order to further develop the relationship, the buddy asked the girl if she could hug her.
As a result, the girl was very embarrassed, she said, do you still need to ask these things?
Dude doesn't know what's wrong**, after all, asking each other, isn't this respect?
Later, after about half a month, my buddy found out that the girl suddenly announced her boyfriend, and he was shocked.
After all, they have always been in touch, and how did she manage to suddenly have a partner?
After many inquiries, he learned that this girl was actually very "casual", as long as you took the initiative, she would be with you.
For a while, buddies didn't know whether to regret it or rejoice.
In fact, as long as you have experience in love, you know that when a woman is familiar with the love process and doesn't care about those rituals, most of her is a veteran of the love field.
Schiller once said: "The field of love is very narrow, it can only accommodate two people, if you fall in love with several people at the same time, it is just an emotional game, not real love." ”
Casual women, in fact, can be seen at a glance.
Because their words and deeds reveal no self-love everywhere, they have never had a clear and sober position for love.
Women, don't let the heart of "want to be loved" get carried away, don't be a casual person.
You have to take your time when it comes to feelings, and remember, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.