Marriage is a lifelong event for a woman, and it cannot be decided lightly.
If you marry well, you will be happy all your life, and if you marry badly, you will be miserable for a lifetime.
So, how can a woman find a good partner to marry herself?
The key is to keep your eyes open and not settle for the following three points.
Do you still remember Minglan Minglan's marriage concept in "Do You Know Whether You Should Be Green and Fat or Be Red and Thin"? Here's how she treats her marriage:
When a woman gets married, she still gets along with people, so it depends on her low qualities. "If you can tolerate his lows, then you can get through this life. If you can't stand his low status, then make a decision as soon as possible, otherwise there will be all kinds of bad things after marriage, and there will be no pain to speak of. ”
This is Minglan sobriety, she knows that character is the key to considering whether a person is reliable.
If a woman wants to marry well, character is a very important point, and it will determine the price of your run-in.
With people with good personalities, everything can be discussed amicably.
Getting along with people with bad personalities and arguing over trivial matters every day can kill all the enthusiasm for life.
Less than half of a person's character is innate, and more than half is acquired.
A smart woman, from a person's character, can see his growth environment, and life experience.
A woman who marries well will choose to be with someone who is easy to get along with, so that there will be fewer quarrels and less anger in the future.
If you ignore the character, maybe you won't feel anything for a short time, but after a long time together, you will feel tired because the other person may never grow up.
It is said that the economic base determines the superstructure, and this phrase is more revealing when used in marriage.
When I was younger, I heard a story about a young girl who was about to get married after falling in love, and how her family didn't listen to her advice. When it was time for the wedding feast, they found that the groom was financially powerless, so they wept in the streets.
A woman who is happily married always understands that being in love is one thing, and getting married is another.
When you fall in love, you can only talk about feelings, not materials, but when you enter marriage, materials must be talked about openly, not ambiguously.
If a woman wants to marry well, then when facing marriage, she must be sober and not just talk about love.
The kind of person you choose to spend with will determine the quality of your life for the rest of your life.
A well-married woman will never be satisfied with the man's character, character, and materiality, but will set standards within herself to find a really good partner.