What do you say Chinese children lack the most now?
I saw such a post with more than 8,000 likes for his answer.
The content of this post is to say: I can solve difficult functions, I can also solve ternary equations, but I don't know the process of going to the hospital to see a doctor, I don't know the process of social security and medical insurance.
In my life, my mother would often say to me: What have you learned in school all these years?
And on your own side? There are many students who are sick, they are not concerned about their own body but about how many classes I have missed, and he deeply summarized himself My three views are formed by the Internet.
I saw a news this morning, it was a senior in high school who suddenly jumped to his death, he is the child who everyone looks normal, the reason for finding a short-term is that he met an extremely experienced girlfriend when he was in love, he was rare and then abandoned, and he struggled for a long time and couldn't get out, but until he had an accident, his parents did not find any abnormal ...... the child
I want to say that those children who seem to be normal, in fact, may be that you don't notice that he has actually struggled many times and collapsed many times but is still ignored.
More than one person has asked, what kind of education should be given to children? What do we Chinese children lack? I think it's just that there is a lack of humanistic education.
When I read picture book stories to my 6-year-old Patter, I can deeply feel that when I go to a certain clear purpose to correct a bad habit in my child, or want to guide him to a good habit, teach people how to have empathy, how to empathize, how to feel love and pass on love, and strong inner adversity.
When I searched, many of the classic picture book stories were from Japan and some developed countries, and I didn't raise my eyebrows, but from the perspective of humanistic education, I really think we still have a gap.
More and more parents unconsciously treat their children as geniuses and learn machines to train them, and even in some private schools around me, parents are secretly making up homework for their children, and they dare not tell other parents because they are afraid that others will also tutor ......
In their eyes, children only learn first is something worth pursuing.
That's why I say to many parents, we must let them learn how to be soft and tough, how to be warm, how to know how to love and release love, how to enjoy the process of love, how to become healthy and perfect at the same time.
When it comes to a complete personality, I think first of all, a sense of security and belonging is very, very important, but unfortunately in many children nowadays, they are lacking.
Really every child can urgently need someone around him who can see him, understand him, respect him, and know that in addition to earning a lot of money, in addition to a decent job and a decent car, there are many things in this world, such as family and friendship, etc.
What a wonderful and free thing.
Therefore, the hopes and excellence that parents put on their children sometimes need to be returned to themselves.
After all, an excellent and open-minded parent can raise a child with a relatively complete personality.
Finally, I want to say that parents, we must not stop growing up.