How can a woman save herself?
How can a woman save herself in an unhappy marriage? If you are already disappointed in your husband but are not reconciled, or you don't know how to deal with this failed marriage for the sake of your children, then I have four tips to help you save yourself, even if you don't divorce, you can live comfortably.
The first point is that if you and your husband no longer have a relationship, but he is still valuable to the family, then let's not talk about feelings but interests, and treat him as a partner who lives and raises a baby. If you are about to quarrel when you open your mouth, then try not to open your mouth to avoid ineffective communication.
Isn't it said that silence is golden? It's like making money. The more you ignore a man, the more curious he will be about you, and he will not be able to figure out what he will be about you. If you nag him all day long, then he knows you well and will take you to death. So don't reason with him, he will find you verbose and annoying, and he may lash out at you.
The second point is don't try to change him, he does what he likes, and don't always keep your eyes on him. If he deliberately comes to anger you, you treat him as air. Because human nature is very difficult to change, you don't need to ask for trouble, and you can't do it when you get sick.
Third, keep your expectations of him to a minimum. For your whole life, it is actually not so important, you must not rely on him too much, as if you can't live without him, don't be so unproductive, treat him as a neighbor as a passerby, dispensable.
Fourth, it's boring to choose the wrong marriage, he is just a small part of your life, don't look at it more than life. If you choose the wrong marriage, we can focus on our careers, and we can make up for the unhappiness of your marriage if we work well. And no matter how old you are, you must continue to learn to accept new things, improve your own value and ability, and live a more fulfilling life.
You are not the only woman who marries the wrong person, why others can live well, is because they live and understand, if you can't change others, then change yourself. Remember that there is no such thing as a perfect person, only the best version of yourself. In this world, the last thing that can be relied on is always yourself, no one can really save you, relying on yourself is a practical choice, and managing your own life is what a woman should do.
I'm Aiden, follow me to talk about marriage.