The gap between rich and poor is enormous. Some people have money in their accounts every minute, while others are constantly worried about money. Those who have money live beautifully, while those who don't are careful and afraid that others will see that they don't have money. But even if a person is carefully disguised, the fact that he has been short of money for a long time cannot be concealed. His disguise is only to hide himself. In fact, one cannot hide the fact that there is a chronic lack of money. There are clear signs of this type of person.
In the book "Your Best Investment", the author says, "Investing in yourself is the best investment. "Some people are reluctant to participate in training, buy books, or even travel to broaden their horizons in order to save money. Investing in yourself is a commitment to the future. A reluctance to spend money can mean that you don't have much to expect from the future.
Read a story where A and B used to work in the same unit. At that time, there was a place for further training in the unit, but you had to pay for it yourself. Many colleagues advised them to give up, not only to pay for themselves, but also to return to a position that may not be guaranteed, no matter how you look at it, it is not worth it. After hesitating again and again, A still chose to study, and B couldn't help but give up. During the training, someone soon took A's place, and A had to make a living again when he returned.
But the story doesn't end there. In the course of his studies, not only did he broaden his knowledge and horizons, but all the students he met during his studies were elites from all walks of life, which brought him new knowledge from time to time. Now a few years have passed, A resigned and started a business, the company is doing more and more smoothly, and soon became a leader in the industry, while B is still living a step-by-step life, always worried about when the storm of layoffs will come to him.
People who are chronically short of money tend to have a more limited social circle. They may not have enough money to participate in various social activities, or they may choose to stay away from crowds because of a lack of self-confidence. They may have a small circle of friends or even just family and friends. They may feel cramped and restless in social situations. These are also signs that you are short of money in your life.
Lazy people feel tired of doing everything, don't want to contribute, and don't like to use their brains. Without action and effort, it is very difficult to succeed. I've heard stories about cold birds before. The magpie advises the cold birds not to play and to start preparing early for the winter. The cold bird didn't care either, and when he saw the magpie busy making a nest for the grass, he felt that the magpie was making a fuss, so it was unnecessary to start preparing early.
A cold wind blew at night, and the cold bird decided to start nesting the next morning. But the sun came out and the weather warmed up, and it was too lazy to move again and decided to move again tomorrow. It goes on and on. The Bird's Nest did nothing. As a result, in the harsh winter, it will not survive and freeze to death at night, and it can't wait for "tomorrow" to build a nest.
A person who is too lazy to do anything that interests him, even if he has a good opportunity, he will not be able to seize it. Such a person cannot get out of "poverty". "Those who know are not as good as those who are good, and those who are good are not as good as those who are happy. "Wealth management is a curiosity and pleasure about wealth, and only by understanding it deeply can we truly grasp the way of wealth.
People who are chronically short of money lack financial awareness and do not recognize the critical role of financial management in changing their financial situation. By budgeting, saving, investing, etc., you can gradually develop financial awareness and achieve steady growth in wealth. Sailing in the ocean of money, financial management is our beacon, guiding us to avoid the reef of poverty and sail to the other side of wealth.
When a person has no economic foundation, his own desires are often full of injustice, and he will do everything possible to use external forces to satisfy his desires. When the time comes, loving you will become an excuse, and he will want you to work hard for him and support him. In the classic love story "Du Shiniang", the famous prostitute Du Shiniang chose Li Jia, Li Jia was bankrupt because she was addicted to fireworks, and because she had no money, she was worried that she would not be able to explain it to her father, so she sold Du Shiniang. Many people think that at the beginning, Li Jia loved Du Tengniang, from love to cruel abandonment, but because she didn't have enough earning power, they didn't play, so in the face of preset difficulties, the first thing to sell was a woman. Du Shixiang's ending is tragic, he chose the wrong person, and sometimes it is irreparable.
For a person who has been short of money for a long time, he rarely talks about money with others, and even if there is a discussion, he will express his sadness that he can't make money and make others sympathize. What's more, in the process of talking about money, he is inferior and timid in his heart, he is afraid that the other party will look down on him, and he is afraid that he will not be able to give the other party value. A very poor man, he is sensitive and suspicious, even if others do not say it to him, he will occupy his seat and end up making himself feel uncomfortable. On the contrary, talk less about money and suffer less. In any case, the truth cannot be changed, it is better to let go of the mentality and do what you can do.
The overall portrayal of Zhu Chuanwen in the TV series "Entering the Kanto" is not outstanding. He's a coward, he's afraid, he's jealous. But when the Shandong restaurant opened, it had four signature dishes: Zhu Ji Sauce Beef, Fried Ice Rink, Braised Live Phoenix, and Fuji Fish. Except for the ice rink, everything else is the result of Zhu Chuanwen's hard work. He worked tirelessly to find secret recipes, learn and improve, which became the specialty of his restaurant, not only making money, but also laying a solid foundation for the development of Shandong restaurants in the Northeast.
On the road of life, as long as people are willing to learn, there will be gains, and you can earn money through hard work and live the life you want. In life, people who are chronically short of money are reluctant to learn, so they are unable to change their lives and fight against unexpected events. People who are chronically short of money often run into debt problems, and they may need to borrow money to pay for living expenses or emergency expenses, but they can't pay it off on time, which can lead to high interest rates and a rapid accumulation of debt that eventually becomes a burden that they can't get rid of. Debt problems can cause a lot of stress and anxiety for individuals, and long-term debt problems can not only affect credit scores but also negatively impact an individual's self-esteem and self-confidence. People may feel ashamed and blame themselves for being a failure, and debt issues can also affect relationships because they are unable to keep their promises or provide support.
The cognitive logic of an embarrassing person is simply incredible. As the fable goes, a beggar accidentally picked up a golden bowl one day, but he could not see the value of the golden bowl and continued to eat it. Embarrassed people embarrass their lives, and what they see are petty profits, only in the immediate and meticulous, never ignoring the overall situation, and discussing in the long run. Many embarrassed people, do a little thing to get paid immediately, can not see the future prospects, they do not know how to learn, do not know how to improve, do not know how to invest, believe in useless theoretical knowledge, with brute force, hard work, in exchange for a little pitiful wages, do not pay attention to methods, pay more attention to efficiency and results. Such people are paranoid, stubborn, do not listen to dissuasion, often do not know to give up without meeting, they do not know how to seize the opportunity to make easy money.
If a person has no money, the person will have a somewhat humble taste. In fact, power and money are very important in this world. If a person has no rights, then that person is upright. Although we can't judge people by their appearance, we should also help those who are poor, but sometimes not all people think this way, so when a person without money lives in this society, others will look at this person differently. Over time, the person will become very inferior.
In today's society, there are people who are not wealthy, but they want to get more attention and win a face that is not theirs. Therefore, they always show off themselves in public, wrap themselves in exaggerated and exaggerated language. It's just an ordinary degree, but it is claimed to be a graduate of a prestigious school, with a master's degree and a doctorate studying continuously online, plus studying abroad, it looks promising. is obviously just an ordinary person, but in front of others, he always wears a mink hat and gold and silver brand-name clothes, highlighting his difference. However, in private, when they remove these disguises, they still have to face the cruelty of real life and live more frugally.
There is an imagination, although not entirely accurate, but it also explains a lot of things: "The more you like to complain about selling miserably, the more money you have, and the more you cry poor, the more money you have." "There is a term in psychology called "learned helplessness", in the vicious circle of "feeling helpless, showing helplessness, deepening the concept of helplessness, showing more serious helplessness", you will not make any practical changes except complaining, you are used to complaining, and when you have a problem, the first thing is to blame the world, blame this and that blame that is unfair to yourself, call your experience too miserable and unlucky.
That is, people will have negative moments, there will also be ups and downs of the day, some people sigh and respond positively, the more difficult the more they can face, some people are just the opposite, complaining about the world over a little thing, the more they live, the less spirit. People live not because of money or not, because some people do live poorly, but they are also very happy and respected by everyone.
But we can't let our muddy state continue, it's okay to relax, but the most important thing is not to lose the pursuit, not to let ourselves become slack, this is responsible for our own life.