We need to live our lives with people who understand us
01 Stay awake.
When two people live together, we need to take care of each other more during this time.
When two people go from a relationship to a marriage, they have a lot to go through along the way.
In a relationship, we should actually try to keep ourselves in a state of sobriety.
But there are so many people who are in love and always let themselves be hurt.
When the two first got together, all the time and energy was spent on each other.
When we connect together, we feel that time flies quickly, as if time has shrunk.
As soon as we separated, our hearts began to be very reluctant.
We always want to live together for a long time, but we are afraid of responsibility.
But people will always meet some wrong people in this life.
For example, some people had planned to take a major exam this year.
But we may not be able to take care of the emotions of the other half, so the two of us are always arguing.
We were afraid of delaying the exam, but we were afraid that he would leave us.
We will continue to live in a tangle, but in the end we will become nothing.
Exams require us to spend time in love, and they also require us to spend time.
But if you have to choose between your own life and the life you spend with others.
We might as well think more about ourselves.
Because if he really wants to spend this life with you, he will try not to bother you.
You have a better career, and he will be happy for you.
Therefore, we must remain sober in our relationships.
02Take care of each other.
A good relationship does not mean that there is any romance to be created every day, but that you can feel the warmth in the ordinary.
When two people are together, what they are most afraid of is each other's indifference and ruthlessness.
Even if you are a person who usually talks very little, when you are hurt, his heart will always feel sorry for you.
For example, when you fall, he will blame you for being careless, but he will not forget to pull you up.
Therefore, a good relationship should need to support each other.
One person should think about life, and two people should also think about life.
When we're alone, we don't have to worry so much.
But when two people are together, we are the closest people to each other.
Life can be without the embellishment of flowers, but it cannot be without the warmth of the sun.
Living in the dark for a long time, we will always feel extremely lost in our hearts.
We will envy the people who receive flowers on special occasions and we have nothing.
You always tell him to spend more money at home, but in your heart you are extremely envious of others.
We always live as people who envy others, and we always cry silently in the shadows of others.
They don't care about your emotions in the slightest, whether it's when you're hurt or when you're envious of others.
When you are hurt, you tell him about your pain like everyone else, and he will think that you are too pretentious.
And when you envy someone else's flowers, he will only blame you for being too naïve.
In fact, there is no point in this relationship going on.
Because you are always in His control, it is not that we want Him to give, but that what two people need is to think about each other.
03 Something to look forward to.
Although the days go on day by day, in the ordinary life, we often feel that there is no enthusiasm.
When we are ready to write a poem, we realize that there is no other material to write about, because there are so many good poems that already exist.
And when we are ready to shine in our own careers, we realize that those who have achieved are too good.
We expect less and less from life because we always look too high.
We see how good others are, and we never learn to appreciate ourselves.
In fact, we also have our own unique character, and we also have some sparks that others envy.
As long as you maintain an optimistic attitude towards life, then you will also usher in the envy of many people.
Because we always like warmth to surround us.
So let yourself be better, maintain a stable mood, and do what you want to accomplish, then we haven't wasted our lives.
04 Your sincerity deserves to be treated kindly.
We are always sincere about a relationship and want us to get something out of it.
But we are often deceived by others, and we are constantly hurt by others.
He never saw the moment when you cried.
Even if he knows your sorrow, he won't care about you.
Because this kind of person is very selfish, he just wants to have what you are good for him.
And he doesn't want to give anything.
When you leave him, he will try to pretend that he is very affectionate, saying that he is reluctant to leave you.
In fact, he is just used to your goodness, and he is afraid that he will never meet someone as good as you again.
We should not allow our sincerity to be disappointed.
Our sincerity deserves that we meet better people, so the person we think is bad should leave him early.
Don't have any illusions about his change, changing ourselves is the most worthwhile thing to do.