Not long ago, in the crowd of people returning to their hometowns at a railway station in Guangdong, there was a pair of mother and daughter. This is the 13th year that 47-year-old Zhao Lijuan has become her daughter's "tablemate". Love, persistence, and companionship have written their tear-jerking family stories.
20 years ago, Chi Yingqi was born in an ordinary family in Heyuan, Guangdong.
Her birth brought new hope to the family.
But it didn't take long for her mother, Zhao Lijuan, to notice that Yingqi seemed to be a little "different" from children of the same age: she was stunted, unable to speak, walk, or even sit steadily.
After the doctor's examination, when Chi Yingqi was born, the brain was deprived of oxygen, the nerves were damaged, the muscles atrophied, and he was judged to have severe cerebral palsy and first-degree disability of the limbs, and he was unable to walk normally in the future.
The cruel result was like a bolt from the blue, breaking the family's originally peaceful and happy life.
For this reason, Zhao Lijuan and his wife searched for medical treatment everywhere, but the family, which was not wealthy, quickly spent all their savings.
In desperation, he could only give up his daughter's *** and returned home with Chi Yingqi.
Because she couldn't take care of herself, Zhao Lijuan decided to become her daughter's hands and feet, guarding her daughter's hopes and visions for the future.
Although physically disabled, Chi Yingqi, like other children, has a desire to study.
Zhao Lijuan was also pleasantly surprised to find that although her daughter was physically disabled, her intelligence and language were no different from other children, and she believed that Yingqi would definitely be able to.
In 2011, Zhao Lijuan resolutely quit her job and became a full-time accompanying mother.
She said: "As long as my daughter can study, I am willing to carry it for the rest of my life." ”
Every day before dawn, she gets up to cook, helps her daughter dress and wash, and then takes her daughter to school on a motorcycle.
What ordinary people can accomplish in ten minutes, because Chi Yingqi is physically disabled and unstable in sitting, it often takes a long time for the mother and daughter to do so.
In order to allow her daughter to go to school on time every day, Zhao Lijuan paid unimaginable hardships.
When Chi Yingqi was in the second grade, there was a violent storm one day, and it was difficult for normal people to ride out on a bicycle, not to mention that Zhao Lijuan had to take her daughter with limited mobility.
Zhao Lijuan went out with her daughter on her back, the rain soaked her clothes, the wind blew her hair, Zhao Lijuan gritted her teeth all the way before carrying Chi Yingqi to school.
Although she was exhausted, Zhao Lijuan did not hesitate to look at her daughter's serious study, no matter how hard and tired she was.
Once, the mother and daughter were on their way to school when their motorcycle broke down.
Zhao Lijuan could only push the cart while holding her daughter who was unstable.
The slope was very steep and the car was very heavy, so Zhao Lijuan used all her strength to come to school with her children on time.
For 12 years, more than 4,000 days and nights, Zhao Lijuan accompanied her daughter to study rain or shine.
With the company and care of her mother, in the end, Chi Yingqi was admitted to Guangdong Medical University with a score of 532 points, majoring in applied psychology.
When she got the admission letter, the mother smiled heartily, remembering her hardships and dedication over the years, she only said: "It's hard, but it's worth it for the sake of the child." ”
At the end of 2023, Zhao Lijuan won the title of "Good Person of Guangdong" for filial piety and affection.
She used her heavy maternal love to hold up the hope of her daughter's life, and also reminded countless netizens of her mother's dedication to herself.
In the Douban comment of "Hello, Li Huanying", the comment with the highest praise said:
You think you already love and love your mother very much, but your mother loves you far more than you think, loves you more, loves you more. ”
When I was a child, my mother got up early and stayed late every day to take care of the housework;
When she grew up, she still treated us as children who had not grown up, and she carefully advised us on everything.
Day after day, they fill every day of their children's lives.
There is a sentence in the TV series "Please Answer 1988": "I heard that God can't be everywhere, so he created Mom." ”
Because of your arrival, she is willing to do everything she can to keep you safe and well-being.
There is such a mother and daughter in "The Boy Says".
There is a little girl named Zhang Qinxi, whose mother was the only college student in her grandmother's family, and is now a teacher who teaches ancient literature.
The girl once accidentally saw an invitation card for further study at Wuhan University in her mother's drawer, but later found that this small card belonging to her mother had been thrown away.
She said to her mother in the audience: "I'm sorry, I used to selfishly want you to be by my side all the time, but I forgot that you were also a little girl with dreams, and you are an excellent daughter in the eyes of your grandmother." ”
It's hard to say that the invitation card wasn't the mother's dream, but in order to take care of her young daughter, she was willing to close the window of her dream and be by her child's side.
Sanmao wrote in "Send You a Horse":
It was as if an invisible chain was tied to her mother's legs, and that chain was only long enough for her to walk around the kitchen and home. Although the door was not locked, she willingly locked herself for the rest of her life. ”
Do you still remember the "violent mother" Chen Yurong?
When her son, Ye Haibin, was 13 years old, he was diagnosed with a rare congenital disease, Wilson's disease.
Although Chen Yurong had taken care of her son very carefully, one day, she suddenly received **, saying that Ye Haibin was sent to the hospital because of his bad condition**.
When she and her family rushed to the hospital, they were told that her son had to have a liver transplant within a year or he would not be able to recover.
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, looking at their son on the hospital bed, her mother Chen Yurong decided to cut her liver to save her son.
After the matching, Chen Yurong was pleasantly surprised to find that her liver could be transplanted to her son.
However, because she has severe fatty liver disease, she cannot be transplanted for the time being. The only way is to ** first.
Desperate to save her son, Chen Yurong decided to lose weight as quickly as possible through "rampage".
She walks 10 kilometers every day and refuses to stop no matter how tired she is; I only eat boiled vegetables in clear water for each meal, and I am reluctant to eat a cookie no matter how hungry I am.
Seven months later, with her perseverance and belief, Chen Yurong successfully lost weight, and after a doctor's examination, it was found that her fatty liver had also disappeared.
Eventually, she managed to transplant a portion of her healthy liver to her son.
She used the nectar of love to nourish her son's almost dry life, and was praised by netizens as a "violent mother".
The mother of the world is not superhuman, but she is better than superman.
She is a big tree, sheltering us from the wind and rain; It is a harbor for us to anchor and rely on.
Bing Xin wrote in the essay "Not Why":
Mom, why the hell do you love me? ”
Mother put down her needle and thread and pressed her denomination against my forehead, and said softly, without hesitation:
Not why, just because you are my daughter! ”
Yes, a mother's love is simple.
When we shout "mother", they are willing to interpret "mother" for the rest of their lives.
There is a netizen on Douyin who once posted his mother's ** before her death.
An old man with white hair got up with a rope tied to the head of the bed, and she could feel her hardship through the screen.
It turned out that the old man broke his leg at the age of 90, and although he had children and daughters, he was reluctant to trouble them.
Every time I get up, I pull the rope hard by myself.
The independent and difficult appearance of the grandmother is not a portrayal of many mothers.
Even if the children are around, as long as they can move, no matter how hard it is, they don't want to trouble their children.
If your children are far away, they are even more reluctant to disturb their peaceful life.
Some people say that mothers are the least concerned people in this world.
Xiaohongshu netizen @durianah, I haven't seen my mother for more than a year after work.
Before returning home, he didn't say hello, but secretly ran to the small restaurant owned by his mother to pretend to be a customer of eating.
Because of the cold, he was wearing a mask and hat, and his mother did not recognize him whether he was ordering or serving.
Even, his voice was not heard.
It wasn't until he whispered "Mom" that his mother looked at him through the window of the operation room.
Then, cautiously, she tentatively called out her son's name, like a child worried about doing something wrong.
It's not that she can't recognize her son, but she's afraid that she will admit it again.
When her son was not at home, the mother mistook many people because they were like her own children.
Although she is far away in another city, the mother's love and longing for her son has never been interrupted.
Mothers are like that, no matter where you are, they always hold you in the palm of their hearts.
Even, imagine you're right next to them.
A netizen once shared such a sentence:
For mothers, before you came, she had the whole world in her eyes; After you came, she was left with only you in the world. ”
Although life has an end, a mother's love has never ended.
Have you heard this story?
A baby was about to be born, and he anxiously asked God, "I am about to go to earth, but what should I do if I am so weak and helpless?" ”
God said, "I will send an angel to the earth, and she will wait for you to come down and protect you all the rest of your life." ”
The baby asked curiously, "What's her name?" ”
God smiled and said, "Her name is Mommy." ”
From toddler to brisk walking, from infant to starting a family, the companionship of mother's love allows us to spend the years safely.
This Spring Festival, how many mothers, in order to give their children a happy New Year, in order to welcome their children home, have been busy for a long time.
Take advantage of the time to care more about her; Take advantage of the Spring Festival reunion, remember to talk to her.
When you happily eat that bite of the "New Year's flavor", don't forget to say to the busy figure: "Mom, you have worked hard!" ”
May the "angel on earth" who guards your life be happy and healthy.
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