"Don't say too much. Don't try to be a teacher. Don't talk about others lightly. Don't worry about others. ”
No one is perfect. Each one has some minor drawbacks. Sometimes I say leaky. Although harmless, if you get into a habit, it will not only be annoying, but it can also cause trouble and may even affect your Feng Shui.
Therefore, if you are always mindful of your words and actions in your daily life, you will not only be welcomed by others, but you will also get better and better.
Don't exaggerate. I don't know if you've ever been in this situation, but sometimes people deliberately exaggerate things or fabricate events to prove their point.
It's natural not to fully understand things. There's no need to talk nonsense for the sake of showing off.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang said: "The height of the mountain cannot be explained, but it does not affect its majestic sea of clouds. The depth of the ocean cannot be explained, but it does not affect its ability to accommodate hundreds of rivers. The earth can't explain it. "I will. "It's indescribably thick, but no one can replace it. Basic situation. ”
Strong people don't flaunt their talents and knowledge in front of others. On the contrary, some people who know little about it like to show off the little things they know.
As a result, a strong person becomes stronger because he is always seeking knowledge, while a person who gives up halfway always stays where there is no knowledge.
Don't be a teacher.
Everyone must have met a teacher. They are happy to correct your "mistakes" and tell you this and that, but most of them are meaningless.
When I visited the bookstore the other day, the girl chose a collection of essays, but her friend strongly recommended a sweet pet ** to her.
The girl said that she liked the prose of famous writers and liked the fireworks they wrote about in the world.
But the companion said with a disgusted face: "Look, you have become a little old lady when you see these books, and you still look like a little girl in her twenties." ”
The girl gave her a blank look and said, "Don't worry, don't worry. Then he picked up the book and went to read it.
Everyone has their own preferences and tries their best to live the life they love. What you like, what you look good at, may not be suitable for everyone, and there is no need to impose it on others.
I especially liked the girl's words, "Take care of yourself". Many people pretend to "get it" all day long and criticize others when they don't understand.
There may be believers for a while, but after a long time, it is inevitable that they will be rejected.
Don't talk about other people's shortcomings lightly.
In life, people who like to flaunt the shortcomings of others abound.
Most of them do it to please others. Some people envy certain aspects of others, so they talk about their shortcomings in order to maintain mental balance.
Some people just hate others and look for topics to attack.
People are not tools. Talking about other people's shortcomings to please others can actually make people look down on you.
You think you're taking advantage of it, but in reality you're losing your personality and some connection.
You can hate someone and ignore them, but exposing someone else's shortcomings may make you happy for a while, but it can have lifelong negative effects on others.
Both good and bad deeds will be rewarded. Kindness will make your life more comfortable, but it couldn't be better if you can't keep your mouth shut and cause harm to others.
No need to worry about everything.
I really hate people who worry about everything and can't afford to lose. The benefits obtained by such people's calculations are often based on the interests of others.
In fact, each of us has an explanation in our hearts. There is no one who does not remember how many benefits he gave up and how many sacrifices he made.
It's just that most people aren't willing to waste their time and energy on these arguments. As long as it doesn't affect your profits, you can incur losses.
But there are also some people who refuse to give up even a grain of sesame for their own benefit. If you try a little harder, you can compete with others until you blush and have a thick neck.
You think you've won, but you've actually lost a lot.
Legitimate interests do not harm the interests of others and do not require compromise. However, don't manipulate or harm the interests of others for your own benefit.
As Zweig said, "Every gift given by fate has been secretly attached."
What you gain and what you lose comes at a price.
Zhu Xi said: "If you have self-esteem, others will respect you; If you are arrogant, others will be arrogant. ”
People who don't know how to respect others can't respect themselves.
Arguing, being a role model, talking about the strengths and weaknesses of others, and finding fault with others are all lacking basic respect for people, and naturally they will not be likable.
Human short-sightedness lies in thinking that others are ignorant and a joke, but they do not realize that they are actually ignorant and a joke in the eyes of others.
Only by being humble, cautious, and kind to others can you win the favor of others.
Let's encourage each other!