"Don't try to succeed, but try to be a worthy person. ”
Many girls often think about their worth or misunderstand their worth and do things that show how worthless they are. But I don't know yet.
1.Overestimate yourself.
Some girls don't know where their confidence comes from. She thinks she is better than others and that others should follow her.
People need to have a basic understanding of themselves. If you want to have good things, you must first cherish yourself.
Overestimating yourself is not self-confidence, it's a joke.
2.Ask for help from others.
Do you have any girls who use birthdays or anniversaries as an excuse to express or imply that someone has prepared a gift for them?
Especially for girls in love, every holiday, they may celebrate their love anniversary months or days later and ask their partner to prepare a gift for themselves.
No matter how expensive or luxurious the gift is, for someone who doesn't care about you, doing these things is the same as handing in homework. And if you ask with the palm of your hand up, you will always be treated with contempt.
If this person really cares about you, you don't need to reach out, even an ordinary day will become beautiful in his eyes, he will take the initiative to give you gifts, and you will choose carefully.
3.Take it for granted that boys spend money for themselves.
Who usually pays when you're in love? ”
I've discussed this with some friends and everyone said they didn't get the money. Share. Too clear, whoever is convenient will pay.
When you're in a relationship, you never know if the future will continue. You don't want to say you got it for free after a breakup. ”
The audience unanimously agreed with my friend's words.
As an adult, no one owes you money.
Letting someone spend money for you doesn't mean they love you. On the contrary, as time goes on, your value becomes less and less in the eyes of others.
4. Treat yourself as an appendage to men.
I have a responsibility to earn money to support my family, and you have a responsibility to make yourself look good. ”
This statement is the biggest lie. How many women have been lost by this lie? They lose the ability to walk on their own.
The human psyche is very complex, and even if we don't know what's going on inside of us, we always want what we don't have.
The same goes for love and marriage, if you believe in a man you have pursued or truly loved, you have already lost.
Don't rely on anyone. Unreliable. My most stable support is myself.
You need to have the ability to think for yourself and the power to get what you want at any time. Even if the other person withdraws from your world one day, you can continue to walk your own path with dignity.
5.Lack of boundaries.
In recent years, a word has emerged called "man**, however, some girls have an ambiguous relationship with boys and pretend to be brothers.
Zhou Guoping said, "Every interaction has a boundary that cannot be crossed in the end, and all troubles and conflicts stem from the desire to break through this boundary." "There is no difference.
No matter how good your relationship is, don't say what you shouldn't say and don't do what you shouldn't. It's respect for others and respect for yourself.
Maintain a basic sense of boundaries and behave appropriately to earn the respect of others. If you don't, you'll end up bringing shame on yourself.
6.Make every effort to achieve your goals.
In order to achieve their own goals, some girls do not think about honing their abilities or competing strength, but use their female advantages to play tricks and tricks. 。
What is easy to get in this world will not last long, and will be lost one day.
Even if it takes a lot of effort and a long time, you will get what belongs to you.
No matter how much you try to grab something that doesn't belong to you, it's hard to grab it. Even if you grab it in your hand, it will run away.
Rely on your own strength, get what you want, and take a steady step forward. The wrong path is never a shortcut, but a path that gradually leads you astray and deviates from it with no turning back.
Mr. Emerson said, "Everything in the world has its value, and we should believe in our own power and worth. ”
A person's worth is not determined by how much wealth or status he has. The temporary favor of others depends on your upward growth.
People who grow upwards always improve their abilities and self-worth at their own pace, without having to ask others and please others.
If a girl wants to be valued by others, she must first value herself. The higher the value, the more unique and unique you can get.