As a married mother, I deeply feel that life is not easy and sad. The exhaustion and stress between work and family made me feel lost about my future life.
After becoming a stay-at-home mom, I have to put a lot of effort into the lives of my family and children every day. I need to wake up early to prepare breakfast for my family, prepare school uniforms and school bags for my children, accompany them to eat, go to school, and then rush to work myself. When I get home from work, I have to do household chores such as washing dishes, cooking, and doing laundry, and I also help my children with their homework at night until they fall asleep. These seemingly simple things take up most of my time and energy, making me feel like a babysitter around the clock.
In the process of taking care of children, I often feel helpless and anxious. The health of the child is the greatest concern of every mother. When my child is sick, I often feel worried and heartache and can't sleep all night. Especially after my children fall asleep, I sometimes feel lonely and lost because I don't have time to do the things I love and I don't have time to communicate with my friends. I felt like I had lost my life to myself, freedom and independence.
Financially, stay-at-home mothers are also often under pressure. I need to pay for various living expenses, including rent, utilities, food, medical bills, and more. With a limited family budget, I need to make ends meet, but I often feel like I can't make ends meet. I often feel that I am working hard but not being able to provide a better living condition for my family, which makes me feel very guilty and helpless.
Psychologically, stay-at-home mothers also often face challenges. I need to deal with my children's education, family relationships, and self-worth. I often feel that I don't have enough time and energy to improve myself, to learn new knowledge, to pursue my dreams. I was worried that I would be disconnected from society and that my sense of worth would be reduced.
Despite the difficulties and challenges in life, I still held on to my beliefs and efforts. I believe that only by working hard can we provide better living conditions for our families and become role models for our children. I also believe that only by continuous learning and progress can we maintain our sense of value and competitiveness.
**Ten Thousand Fans Incentive Plan In general, as a married mother, I deeply feel that life is not easy and sad. But I believe that as long as I maintain a positive and optimistic attitude and persevere in my efforts, I will be able to overcome difficulties and achieve my dreams.