In life, there are some words that we should not understand, but we should care.
For example, in an ashtray, never put water in it.
As soon as this sentence appears, everyone will associate it with it, which is saying, don't water your feelings.
But I hope you never understand the meaning of this sentence.
We've all been hurt emotionally, again and again.
Betrayed, deceived, abandoned, and instantly cold.
So we got tired and scared, and chose to close our hearts and never trust anyone easily.
But I hope that you, even if you have been hurt, will not close your door because of this.
Because, every person who is worthy of being trusted is worth waiting for.
Some people will feel that it is too tiring to love someone, and they can live well by themselves.
But I hope you don't deny love itself because others are unworthy.
Because, every sincere effort will find feedback one day.
There are also people who say that feelings do not need to be watered, they will come when they should come, and they can't stop what they should go.
But I want you, even if you know that the relationship may be short-lived, you will devote yourself wholeheartedly.
Because, the most worthy relationship in this world is what you and I have ever had.
There are also people who believe that feelings need strategy and cannot always be wishful thinking.
But I hope you don't care about gains and losses in love, and calculate the coming and going.
Because love is not a transaction, love is love, there is no reciprocity, and there is no need to reciprocate.
In this world, there are always people who tell you not to be a useless romantic.
But I hope that you will always have a pure heart to love and be loved passionately.
Because, life is like the splendor of summer flowers, and death is like the quiet beauty of autumn leaves.
It is also said that long-term relationships need to be renovated frequently to strengthen the relationship.
But I hope that you, with your beloved, will grow old slowly.
Because, the years are quiet, the water flows for a long time, and what is needed is never deliberate.
In life, you will hear all kinds of advice.
But I just want you to remember not to change your definition of love because of other people's words.
Because, love should be open, honest, and without regrets.
In this world, every kind of beauty is a scarce resource.
So I hope that you will not be stingy with your sincerity and give your lover the greatest tolerance.
Because, the most precious thing in this world is the pure land in your heart and me.
Loving someone can't guarantee eternity, and you can't control the life and death of your feelings.
But I want you, if not for eternity, to still be brave enough to love.
Because, a brilliant moment is better than an eternal dullness.
In life, you will encounter countless disappointments and despairs.
But I still hope that you will keep a soft and kind heart.
Because, in this world, what is more important than being loved is whether your love is still there.
Maybe one day, you'll understand the meaning of this sentence.
But until then, I just hope that you can still live passionately and love sincerely.
Because, the last thing you should miss in this world is every scorching warm sun.
When I was younger, I also misunderstood the meaning of this sentence.
Now that I think about it, it's just a form of protection, from a broken heart.
But I hope you never need such protection in this life.
Because, the most worthy emotion in this world lies in who else I am, you and I are willing.
In the ashtray, never put water in it.
This sentence, I hope you will never understand.
Because, the most romantic thing in this world is that someone is willing to break common sense for feelings, to water, to care.
If you love someone, you can't control the coming and going of your feelings.
But I want you to remember, cherish the present, and live in the moment.
Because, feelings are the most impermanent, life is the shortest, and what you love today is eternal.
May you be treated gently by life and treated quietly by the years.
When you meet someone who understands you and is reliable, you will no longer let go easily.
The fate of cultivation, because of the unworthiness of one or two people, denies the deep affection in this world.
Because the essence of love is to care and give.
It doesn't need to be defined, it doesn't need to be constrained, and it doesn't need to be policyd.
May you be loved and needed throughout your life.
Meeting the soul's soulmate, even if it is only for a moment, is enough.