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The year-end bonus has been hollowed out, and there are people who have a lot of money to count! How to prevent the year-end bonus from being squandered?
Analysis of the "discrepancies" in the receipt of gifts during the Chinese New Year.
1. Spring Festival red envelope: 20,000 yuan, 2,000 yuan.
Netizens in major cities have had heated discussions on the issue of New Year's money and wages for the Spring Festival. A netizen posted the details of his red envelopes, and nearly 10,000 were posted. Another netizen said that he gave a total of nine red envelopes of nearly 6,000 yuan, which made his salary fall to the bottom all of a sudden. Another netizen even took his child to get 11 red envelopes and experienced the joy of "counting money". In the forum, many people are sending messages, saying how much money they have received, how much money they have received, how much money they have spent, how much money they have spent, some people are "bleeding" badly, some people are "full" in their accounts, and some people do not even make money or lose money. Everyone is lamenting that by the time of the New Year, a large amount of cash has been squandered.
The "red envelope" culture during the Chinese New Year is not only a manifestation of people's relatives, but also a true portrayal of "things gather like like". Whether it is giving red envelopes or receiving red envelopes, it will touch the deepest part of people's hearts. In order to express their concern and nostalgia for their relatives and friends, some people generously send a red envelope to others, wanting to use it as a bond of relationship; There are also some people who complain about how much pressure they put on their red envelopes because their wages are not enough to spend. In such a conflict between "tradition" and "reality", people have a deep reflection and experience on money, emotion, society and other aspects.
2. Comparison of income and expenditure of red envelope transactions: people in the emotional trap of red envelopes.
In the comment area, a netizen A said that he gave out 20,000 red envelopes, but he took back 2,000, and I felt sorry for me. Some people also said that he never got a red envelope at all, so he sent 8,000 yuan over. Netizen C also said that he didn't get it this time because he got two months' salary. Netizen d netizen e received a red envelope of 0 yuan, but it was very generous. In addition, there are also many people who are handing out "war results", such as piles of banknotes. In a certain sense, the exchange of red envelopes has become a social phenomenon, and everyone can feel the happiness and burden of money.
The red envelope is a symbol of Chinese tradition, which is not only an exchange of items, but also an exchange of feelings. When it comes to receiving gifts, people's attitudes and behaviors rise to the level of ethics and society. The number of red envelopes and the number of red envelopes received will have a direct or indirect impact on people's awareness and understanding of themselves, others, and social relations. The "red envelope economy" not only reflects the flow of funds, but also reflects people's emotions, trust and interpersonal relationships, and is a very fine communication art.
3. Hot topic: New Year's money has become a new worry, because of the "grade" of red envelopes, the pressure on family and friendship is increasing.
Recently, there has been a news circulating on the Internet that "red envelopes are comparable to a month's salary". Many people are leaving messages, complaining that the number of red envelopes is increasing day by day, and some people even think that it is too exaggerated to use the number of red envelopes to calculate feelings? Under the heavy pressure of "red envelopes", some people have rethought the role of "red envelopes" in interpersonal communication, and shifted from simple "money" to "intentions" and "sincerity". Some people also suggested discussing it with their families, not giving red envelopes in the future, and changing to other forms to express their concern and wishes.
Red envelopes are a custom of Chinese New Year, which contains the deep affection and respect of family members for their loved ones. However, due to the difference in social development and individual income levels, "red envelopes" have become a source of psychological burden and anxiety for people. In the relationship of protecting face and maintaining family and friendship, human beings are constantly wandering and struggling. In such a predicament, some people adopt a rational way of thinking, actively regulate their emotions, eliminate the negative effects of "red envelopes", and make themselves more relaxed.
Conclusion. During this time, everyone's mood is different. Some people were taken aback by the number of red envelopes, while others were overjoyed. But in the eyes of some people, red envelopes have become a huge psychological baggage, as well as a huge emotional pressure. In the context of the cultural integration of "red envelopes", it may be necessary for us to rethink and re-examine the tradition of "red envelopes", so as to make it more of the nature of "family affection" and "friendship", rather than being reduced to a tool for "buying and selling". Whether it is the red envelope sent, the red envelope received, or the concept of red envelopes, all kinds of voices have brought us a lot of inspiration and reflection.
In this wave of "red envelopes", we may have to be more caring, more considerate, more considerate, and more personal wishes, so as not to let a small red envelope become a heavy burden. I hope everyone can experience sincere family affection and warm friendship in this festival. I hope that you will feel the profound meaning of red envelopes in this special festival with a calm mind, and combine tradition and modernity, gifts and feelings to create a more beautiful and warm New Year atmosphere.