In this ancient land, some families are thriving and producing talents from generation to generation, while others are like a never-ending tragedy, struggling from generation to generation in the quagmire of poverty and mutual internal friction.
What exactly is the reason behind it? Is it really just fate, or is there some kind of inevitable law hidden in it?
1. Why are these families getting worse and worse?
A decaying family, their decay is not achieved overnight, butAccumulated by a series of stupid behaviors and decisions
None of the people in this family are far-sighted, they are short-sighted, have no plan for the future, like a frog at the bottom of a well, only focusing on the small profits in front of them.
They would rather repeat inefficient work day in and day out than look up at the outside world.
I am even more reluctant to try to find new opportunities, thinking that working hard is a foolproof way to survive.
They are short-sighted, like walkers in the fog, unable to see the road ahead, let alone foresee the opportunities and challenges ahead.
How can such a family cultivate talents with foresight and pattern?
Even more sadden,The family is full of ugly scenes of comparison, jealousy and infighting, like scattered sand, each doing its own thing.
There is no spirit of solidarity and mutual assistance between brothers and sisters, but they are jealous of each other.
Fighting endlessly for personal gain, and even tearing their faces for a little petty profit.
The internal friction between them is more ruthless than dog bite dog. This relative and that relative fought back and forth, causing a miasma in the family.
And those of the older generation are the main culprits of the decline of these families.
When they were young, they were only interested in their own pleasures and never thought about the future of their family.
When he was old, he began to kidnap his children morally and ask them to provide for his old age.
They have forgotten their responsibilities as elders, and the importance of setting an example for their families and passing on wisdom and virtue.
Their selfishness and short-sightedness have led the whole family into a vicious circleSuch a family is destined to become poorer and poorer, and more and more defeated.
They lack vision, unity, courage, and even more so the recognition and reflection of their own ignorant behavior.
Bound by short-sightedness and selfishness, like a swarm of headless flies, they hit a wall everywhere, but they never found the right direction.
2. The core secret of the prosperous family
A family that is prosperous and upward has completely different qualities. Successful families are not achieved by eating empty salaries and fighting with words.
There is one or more visionary and well-established people in the family to guide the way. They are able to see the trends of the times, grasp the opportunities, and point out the direction for the development of the family.
The goal of the whole family is the same, not a plate of scattered sand, each with a ghost, dragging each other back.
A family's short-term goal can be to save enough money to travel the world, and its long-term goal can be to raise the next generation who can contribute to society.
And to achieve these goals, the relationship between husband and wife is crucial. Don't make contradictions, make noise, and delay big things.
In a successful family,The relationship between husband and wife is higher than that of other relationships
The relationship between husband and wife is the cornerstone of family stability, and only when husband and wife are harmonious and support each other can a harmonious environment be created for the whole family.
The husband and wife have a tacit understanding and work together, one is responsible for chasing high, and the other is responsible for maintaining stability.
With the channel and possibility of the family to rise, the child will have a stable growth environment.
Even if the boat capsizes against the wind, you have to hold hands and work together. Otherwise, the small family will be broken, and everyone will not want to have a good life.
In such a family, you don't see members scheming and attacking each other over a trivial matter.
Instead, they will focus on the big picture and work together to face challenges together.
The honor and interests of the family are above all else, and the gains and losses of the individual are insignificant.
They will not hesitate to give for the good of the family, even at the expense of their own interests.
The elders in the family exert their surplus heat and inherit the family style. Lead by example and set a good example for the younger generation.
They pass on their experience and wisdom to the younger generation to help them grow and develop better. Such an old man is the precious wealth of the family!
Look at these two families, one goes up, the other goes all the way down. Who's stupid, you say?
The rise and fall of a family is not the destiny of heaven, but the fault of man!
Keep a clear mind and firm belief, and continue to contribute to the prosperity and development of the family, you will definitely be able to achieve the revitalization and prosperity of the family!
And those stupid families, let them continue to grope in the dark and sink in internal friction!
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