In today's society, we often hear some chilling truths. According to statistics, 60 percent of girls have been abused by acquaintances when they were minors. This fact convinced me that I should never let my daughter go to the same school alone! Although I encourage my daughter to socialize and go to neighborhoods, parks, playgrounds, etc. with her classmates, I never allow her to go to any of her friends' homes. Because being abused and harassed means a lifelong shadow for girls. Therefore, it is very important for girls to go out and have fun with their friends, go home separately, maintain certain boundaries and mutual respect. We must not leave anything to chance, because 80% of abuses occur between acquaintances. We can't gamble on the fate of our children with probability.
According to surveys, the perpetrators of violations against underage children are often those close to us, such as next-door neighbors, relatives or elders, and even grandfathers and grandfathers. Some people have more moral qualities than we can imagine. I once posted a post on Zhihu about my experience of being abused by relatives when I was a child, and surprisingly, I received many comments before I realized that many girls had experienced similar abuses in their childhood. The reason why these girls keep their mouths shut all their lives is because the aggressors are often relatives, which makes it impossible for them to escape the psychological shadow. I have also met many brave girls who have confessed to their parents about the fact that they have been hurt. However, many parents choose to cover up the facts and tell their daughters to pretend that nothing has happened because of the sake of their relatives' face. Parents who behave like this are really not worthy of the role of parents! I want every girl to be able to protect herself from harm! If they are unfortunate enough to encounter such a thing, I also hope that they will be brave enough to stand up and expose these bestial acts! At the same time, I hope that every parent can support their daughters and support them!
As parents, we are always concerned about the safety of our daughters. It is important for girls to recognize the importance of prevention as early as possible. First, we need to communicate openly and honestly with our daughters about what abuse and harassment are and how to avoid them. We should equip them with the right knowledge of defense so that they can better face difficult situations. In addition, we should also encourage our daughters to develop a confident and independent personality, so that they can learn to reject inappropriate people and things and stick to their own bottom line. When cultivating our daughters' social skills, we can encourage them to make more friends, but at the same time, we should also guide them to keep a proper distance and not be too intimate to avoid aggression by someone with a heart.
In addition, we can increase our daughters' sense of security by developing their awareness and skills of self-preservation. For example, teach them some simple self-defense techniques and how to respond to emergencies and ask for help. The most important thing is that we, as parents, should always pay attention to the psychological state of our daughters and give them full love and support. When your daughter has abnormal behaviors or emotions, be sensitive, actively communicate with them, and seek professional help.
In order to better protect the rights and interests of girls, we need to take an educational approach. Schools and society should strengthen education so that girls can enhance their awareness of self-protection and learn to protect themselves. Educational institutions can guide female students to correctly understand the dangers of abuse and develop their ability to cope with crises through safety courses and mental health education. At the same time, society should intensify its crackdown on perpetrators, strengthen the investigation of cases and legal sanctions, and make perpetrators pay the due price.
In addition, homeschooling also plays a key role. Parents should take the initiative to participate in the growth and education of girls, establish a correct gender concept for them, and educate them to correctly understand their rights and interests and identify dangers. When their daughters face abuse or harassment, parents should give them firm support and guide them to stand up bravely and not be oppressed by the perpetrators.
Looking back at the protection of women's rights, we need to pay more attention to the safety of girls. Not just at home and at school, society as a whole should provide a safe environment for girls to grow up. From educating girls to educate them about prevention, to providing safety education, to stepping up efforts to crack down on perpetrators, we need to work together at every turn.
Finally, as parents, we should always pay attention to our daughters' growth and mental health, and give them warmth, support and understanding. Let's take action to protect the rights and interests of girls and create a safe and bright future for them! Only in this way can we let them truly enter their own happy lives.