There are four things that are gone forever in life: the words that come out, the arrows that are shot, the time that passes, and the opportunities that are missed.
Don't think that after this store, there is still that village.
Many opportunities for love come by in a flash, and when you really want to seize it, you find that the other party has already held hands with others, or has entered the palace of marriage.
There are also some young people who are fully prepared to hold hands with someone, but halfway through, they have to let go, and the relationship is not kept at all.
What kind of object is you looking for, so that you can be reliable? Can you successfully step into the marriage hall? Young sons and daughters, you should be "targeted" and seize the following opportunities, don't miss them.
When "you" are not perfect, the person who likes you is the most tolerant of you.
Everyone has an ugly side as well as a good side.
People who are always staring at your ugliest side will definitely find you an eyesore and even laugh at you.
is just two people holding hands, and the other party keeps asking you to go for plastic surgery, squeezing into high-income people, etc., which shows that they dislike your current situation and are also demanding that you become perfect.
Perfect. The person who makes you perfect doesn't love you, but is too picky and doesn't love to the bones.
If a person really loves you, he will love your "beauty" and will love your "ugliness". will find your kind heart and sunny life through your not-so-good-looking appearance.
The writer "Ming Mae Cha" wrote a story.
A female student who has just entered college is ridiculed by her roommate and has a few buckteeth.
In order to look better, the schoolgirl went to fix her teeth and put on unsightly wire braces.
As soon as the braces were put on, the female students were in agony and became even more ugly. And she has to brush her teeth slowly at every meal, and in front of the mirror, she is grinning with her teeth.
Once, while she was brushing her teeth, a guy came up to me and said, "You're confident, I like it." ”
She turned around, her mouth full of foam, and said, "Sister Steeltooth, do you want to date?" Isn't it embarrassing? ”
The boy smiled and said, "I want to accompany you through this part of the road of getting your teeth straightened, it's cool." ”
Later, they fell in love; Later, the female students took off their braces and became beautiful, and they loved them even more.
Loving an imperfect person is actually tolerating, appreciating from a different angle, and finding happiness that is different from ordinary people.
Give up those who let you go to plastic surgery, force you to make a lot of money, and be a good person. True liking is accepting everything you have in the moment.
Balzac said: "It is a pity that it often takes two people to form a perfect lover, just as in literature it is only possible to form a type by means of the characteristics of several men of similar character." ”Yes, two imperfect people, complement each other, and love will become perfect.
When "you" make life decisions, the people who follow you are the best way to walk together.
In Ganwan Village, Liancun Town, Xincai County, Henan Province, there is a model couple: Wang Xia and Ma Fei.
They met in the city, and they made a living together in the city, earning more than 10,000 yuan a month.
One day, Ma Fei decided to go back to his hometown in the countryside to take care of his elderly parents.
When I go to the countryside, raise pigs and farm the land, this life is very hard, and I don't know how much income I will have.
Surprisingly, Wang Xia expressed support for Ma Fei's decision. And after a period of time, Wang Xia resigned and farmed and raised pigs with Ma Fei.
They got married and worked together to build a new life in the countryside. When it was the hardest, we moved bricks to build a pig farm together and designed it ourselves.
In daily life, Wang Xia always saves money, and when she got married, she didn't ask for a ring.
Many years later, when they got rich, Ma Fei secretly bought the ring, but Wang Xia blamed: "This has to be a few months' living expenses, which can treat the elderly."
There is a word called that"Follow suit".
That is, two people who love each other, one makes a decision, and the other does not hesitate to follow. It seems that the people who follow are not assertive, but in fact - they have made up their minds to be together for a lifetime.
Everyone has an inflection point in their lives, and there will be times when decisions are made. At this moment, the people who support you are the ones who love you.
People who don't support you, will naturally go their separate ways. I won't keep it, the way is different, don't conspire with each other.
When you meet someone who is okay and can talk to each other, you can talk more about your own ideas and what you want to do in the future. Look at the other person's attitude, and you will know whether to hold hands or not.
You choose to go to the construction site, and the other party immediately says, "What's the point of that?" ”
You want to open a store, and the other party immediately pours cold water: "Do you have business experience?" ”
But all kinds of things, unreliable, he is just an obstacle to the development of your life, not an object. Otherwise, it counts.
When "you" are down, the person who helps you is the most humane.
There is a good saying: "If you don't accompany the sunset, you don't deserve to rise again." ”
Looking for a partner, there are also many people who tend to be inflammatory. I always hope to tie up a big tree and go up with the trend.
If you are poor, the other party will either leave immediately, or will be directly cold, then you will not please you. When you develop in the future, don't look back, remember the lessons of the past.
"Friends in trouble", in any era, there are, don't think that in this year, all people are hard-hearted.
On the "Nanyang **" online platform, it is said that a couple on Taishan Road in the urban area, Liu Yiwei and Wang Yingzhi opened a shoe-shine and shoe repair shop together, supporting a family.
The husband and wife's hometown is in the countryside of Zhenping, and they farm for a living. In order to change his life, he has worked in supermarkets and construction sites.
No matter how hard and tired they were, they didn't separate.
In fact, around us, there are similar experiences. For example, when you set up a stall, you will meet people who help push carts, people who solicit business, and people who wait for safety at night.
In the beginning, when you were in difficulty, people helped you with love. But the number of times you help is love, don't know.
It has been said, "Life is not a spontaneous self-development, but a long series of chances." Events and decisions, which depend on our will at the time of their fulfillment. ”Marriage can be simple, but not sloppy.
Find the most appropriate opportunity to confess the most worthy of love; In the best opportunity, find someone worthy of love, which is the wisdom that single men and women should have.
Don't say it, Yue Lao doesn't patronize you, think about it, did you reach out and catch a thread that Yue Lao threw down?
The imperfect you are the treasure in the heart of the object; When you turn the corner, you have objects around you; If you are in trouble, the object will help you.
When you meet a reliable person, you should confess, don't just chat; The person who should hold hands, don't just stand shoulder to shoulder; What should be hugged, don't just hold hands; It's time to get married, don't just hug.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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