In the journey of life, four precious things are gone: the words spoken, the arrows from the strings, the passing time, and the missed opportunities.
Don't always think that what you have lost can be reunited.
The flower of love is fleeting, and when you want to catch it, you find that it belongs to someone else, or has entered the palace of marriage.
There are also some young people who are fully prepared to meet a relationship, but halfway through, they have to let go, and love can't be kept at all.
So, what kind of person is the right partner? How can you successfully enter the palace of marriage? Young children, be "targeted" and take the following opportunities to let it slip through your fingertips.
In the moment when you are not perfect, the person who still likes you knows how to tolerate the most.
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Always staring at your shortcomings will undoubtedly find you an eyesore and may even laugh at you.
Even if two people hold hands, if the other person keeps asking you to change and push you to become a better version of yourself, it shows that he and she are not fully receptive.
No one is perfect. The person who demands perfection from you doesn't really love you, but is too critical and doesn't really take you to heart.
If a person truly loves you, he will accept your "beauty" as well as your "imperfection". He and she will find your kind heart and sunny attitude towards life through your not-so-good-looking appearance.
There is a story about a female college student who was ridiculed by her roommate because of several protruding teeth.
In order to look better, she decided to straighten her teeth and put on unsightly metal braces.
As soon as the braces were put on, she was in agony and became more beautiful. And she has to eat every meal slowly, in front of the mirror, with teeth and claws.
Once, while she was brushing her teeth, a guy came up to me and said, "You're confident, I like it." ”
She turned around, her mouth was full, and said, "Sister with braces, do you want to have a relationship?" Don't you feel embarrassed? ”
The boy smiled and said, "I want to walk you through the days of straightening your teeth, it's cool." ”
Later, they fell in love; Later, she took off her braces and became beautiful, and they fell in love even more.
Loving an imperfect person is actually a kind of tolerance, a kind of appreciation, and the happiness that can be found different.
Give up those who let you go to plastic surgery and force you to make a lot of money and be a good person. True liking is accepting everything you have in the moment.
The writer Balzac once said: "It is a pity that it often takes two people to form a perfect lover, just as in literature it is only possible to form a type by means of the characteristics of several people of similar character." ”
Indeed, if two imperfect people complement each other, love will become perfect.
When making life decisions, the people who still follow you are the ones who walk best with you.
In Ganwan Village, Liancun Town, Xincai County, Henan Province, there is a model couple: Wang Xia and Ma Fei.
They met in the city and made a living together in the city, earning more than 10,000 yuan a month.
One day, Ma Fei decided to go back to his hometown in the countryside to take care of his elderly parents.
Returning to the countryside, raising pigs and farming, these days are very hard, and I don't know how much income I will have.
Surprisingly, Wang Xia expressed support for Ma Fei's decision. And after a period of time, Wang Xia resigned and farmed and raised pigs with Ma Fei.
They got married, and together they built a new life. When it was the hardest, we moved bricks to build a pig farm together and designed it ourselves.
In daily life, Wang Xia always saves money, even when she got married, she didn't ask for a ring.
Many years later, when they did, Ma Fei secretly bought the ring, but Wang Xia blamed: "This has to be a few months' living expenses, which can treat the elderly."
There is a word called "follow the same path".
It is said that two people who love, one makes a decision, and the other does not hesitate to follow. It seems that the people who follow are not assertive, but in fact, they have made up their minds to be together for a lifetime.
Everyone has a turning point in their life and a time to make decisions. At this moment, the people who support you are the ones who love you.
People who don't support you, will naturally go their separate ways. I won't keep it, the way is different, don't conspire with each other. When you meet someone who is okay and can talk to each other, you can talk more about your ideas and what you want to do in the future. Look at the other person's attitude, and you will know whether to hold hands or not.
You choose to go to the construction site, and the other party immediately says, "What's the point of that?" ”
You want to open a shop, and the other party immediately pours cold water: "Do you have a business?" ”
But all kinds of things, unreliable, he is just an obstacle to the development of your life, not an object.
There is a saying that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people: "If you don't accompany the sunset, you don't deserve to make a comeback." ”
On the road to finding a partner, many people are like people chasing fame and fortune, eager to cling to a big tree and take advantage of the situation.
If you are a little poor, they will be detached from you, or even outright cold, and you don't need to please them. When you are truly developed one day, you don't have to look back on the past, you have to remember what was there.
Friends in distress", at all times, exist, do not think that in this indifferent society, everyone is hard-hearted.
I once saw a story on the "Nanyang **" online platform, which tells the story of a husband and wife, Liu Yiwei and Wang Yingzhi, who run a shoe-shine and shoe repair shop on Taishan Road in the urban area together, and jointly bear the burden of the family.
They come from the rural areas of Zhenping and make a living from farming. In order to change their lives, they have worked hard in supermarkets, construction sites, etc.
No matter how hard life was, they didn't give up on each other.
There are many similar stories all around us. For example, when you set up a stall, help you push the cart, someone helps you attract business, and someone guards your safety at night.
At first, it was a loving love for them to help you. But when you help a lot, it's an emotion, but you may not realize it yet.
It has been said, "Life is not a spontaneous self-development, but a series of opportunities, events, and decisions that depend on our will at the time of their realization." ”
Although marriage can be simple, it cannot be hasty.
Find the right opportunity to confess to someone worthy of love; Finding someone worthy of love at the best of times is the wisdom that single men and women should have.
Don't always say that Yue Lao didn't take care of you, think about it, did you grasp the red line thrown by Yue Lao?
If you are imperfect, you are still a treasure in the other party's heart; After experiencing twists and turns, you still have a partner by your side; When you're in trouble, someone is here to help.
When you meet someone you can trust, it's time to confess, don't just get married, don't just hug.