Relatives should be courtesy, blessings and hardships.
But today's relatives are no longer as real as they were in the past.
Everyone is different, even if they are a family when they are young, they are not people of the same world when they grow up.
Some relatives seem to be good to you, but they are actually taking advantage of you, and some relatives, who seem to be good brothers, don't want you to be better than him.
Only relatives can easily hurt you, and only relatives can mock you, polite on the surface, but extremely disgusting inside.
Therefore, relatives are not so real, and you don't need to be sympathetic to being born, especially when you meet these 3 types of relatives, you don't deserve sympathy at all.
In our lives, it is not uncommon to meet relatives who see the people around them in an almost pathological way.
They will be jealous of what you have and laugh at what you don't have, and this kind of relative mentality, like a huge black hole, can never fill up their greed and malice.
The mentality of these relatives often stems from their inner inferiority complex and helplessness, they cannot accept everything they cannot have, and they cannot tolerate the success and happiness of others.
They gain self-comfort by belittling and ridiculing others, not knowing that this behavior will only make them more isolated and helpless.
We cannot have any sympathy in the face of such relatives.
Because they are not acting out of helplessness or need for help, but out of malice and jealousy, and if we give them compassion, we are condoning their actions and making them hurt us even more brazenly.
Instead, we should be steadfast in our defense against them.
Learn to recognize their behavior, don't be influenced by their words, maintain a confident and optimistic attitude, and don't let their influence influence influence dictate our emotions and lives.
So, we don't need to show any sympathy to those relatives who hate you for having and laughing at you for not having them.
There is always a relative who always likes to borrow money, but he doesn't like to pay it back.
Every time you meet him, he always borrows money from you for various reasons, such as family difficulties, emergencies, and so on.
You lend him money out of kindness, but he always finds all kinds of excuses to delay the repayment time, and sometimes even does not pay it back.
This relative's behavior not only makes people feel helpless, but also disappointing and sad.
He doesn't seem to realize that borrowing money is a duty, not a right. He always thinks that other people's money is his own and can be used at will. However, he ignores the feelings and interests of others.
For such relatives, we cannot easily trust him. We should always be vigilant and not be deceived by Him.
First of all, there is a big problem with character, such relatives are not likable at all, borrow money but can't exchange it, and are not worthy of sympathy.
If we have to lend him money, we should ask him to sign a loan agreement that specifies when and how to repay the loan.
At the same time, we should also avoid having a monetary relationship with him as much as possible, so as not to bring unnecessary trouble and loss to ourselves.
There are relatives who make us feel strange and alienated, as if they are not related to us by any blood.
These people are never rushed, they are cold and ruthless to us, and they don't even lend a helping hand when we are in trouble.
Every time there is a happy event at home that needs to be drunk, these relatives will not be seen, for fear of giving gifts.
For such relatives, we really do not deserve sympathy.
First of all, we need to understand that kinship is a precious emotional bond, and it should not be replaced by coldness and ruthlessness.
If we treat our relatives like strangers, do we still deserve the title of "relative"?
If we lack even the most basic family affection, then how can we expect to be respected and cared for by others?
Catching up with people is a courtesy, celebrating each other, joining in the fun, not even wanting this, really not like relatives.
Therefore, relatives who have never been in a hurry don't care about you at all, and they don't treat you as a relative for a long time.