Everyone has their own love psychology in a relationship, just like some people never take the initiative in love, and only respond when the other party takes the initiative;
There are also people who when you are enthusiastic about him, he will take it for granted and not take it seriously. When you suddenly treat him coldly, he will flatter you again.
So do you know which of the 12 zodiac signs men, the more cold you are, the more enthusiastic they are?
TOP3 Aquarius man
Aquarius love is like a game of 123 wooden people, whoever moves first loses.
In love, Aquarius will feel that the first person to be emotionally aroused will be tortured more, so they usually do not take the initiative to show favor to others, even if they like it.
But if the other person takes the initiative to show favor to them, that's another matter, they will consider whether to accept it, and if the other person is as good as themselves, then they will try to get along with the other person.
They attach great importance to the word "fate" in their relationship, and when they feel fate, they will chase after you. But during this time, you can't give too much, and the better you treat the Aquarius man, the less they will value you.
Aquarius men are also a little selfish, they will take all your gentleness for themselves, but they will not give you their own tenderness. At this time, it will not be the love you imagined.
When you ask an Aquarius man for it, they will confidently say that you have always offered to give, and they have not asked you to give, and at this point, you will become bitter and unspeakable.
It is because you love that they have a reason to hurt you. Such men should be cold to them, say less about anything, don't tell the Aquarius man everything, and leave them room for imagination!
TOP2 Scorpio man
Scorpio men are in love with a desire for control and a sense of control, they like to control the direction of the development of the relationship, and let the lover act according to his wishes.
Therefore, when dealing with Scorpios, be careful not to confront them head-on, but to subtly guide them in the direction they want with indirect tactics.
Many people think that Scorpio is a dark-bellied and deep man to stay away from, but this is only their side. Scorpios are very considerate and attentive to the people they like, and their indifference only applies to those who have nothing to do with them.
When confronted with a girl he likes, the Scorpio man will take the initiative to approach, and if you behave coldly, they will still be warm to you.
Scorpio men don't like mundane things, this is because they already have a sense of coldness and mystery, so what can impress a Scorpio man is just more cold and mysterious.
Men like to pursue excitement, not to mention the Scorpio man who is naturally controlling, the more difficult it is to guess, the more they can take the initiative, once they catch up, not only will they have a sense of accomplishment, but also satisfy their possessiveness, therefore, don't be too clingy to the Scorpio man.
Leaving is the best strategy, because they often don't value what is easy to get, and it is better to be the one who asks them to "ask for it", because this will stimulate their fighting spirit, and in the end they will be completely conquered by you.
TOP1 Aries man
Aries men are known for their enthusiasm and self-confidence, and when they meet an indifferent woman, they see it as a challenge that forces them to constantly improve themselves in order to win her favor.
In their minds, only the grapes that can't be eaten are the sweetest, like you can't give too much to the Aries man, the more seriously you treat them, the less they care about you.
Emotionally, the Aries man is very infatuated, but the premise of their infatuation is that there is no way to have your all, and once you give yourself out without reservation, it is very dangerous, and the Aries man will not treat you as the most important person in their life.
In addition, the Aries man is actually a very macho person, they believe that women should not be too proactive, and they will not be interested in women who are too proactive.
The Aries man is easy to float, especially in a relationship, the easier it is to get, the higher it will float, because the Aries man has a bit of machismo, so the easier it is to get someone, and they don't necessarily appreciate it.
So at this point, it's important to note that even if you like the Aries man a lot, you can't show everything you have to yourself, keep it cold so that the Aries man can gradually discover your beauty and make them revolve around you.
Yu Xiaomei believes that in love, you should find someone who can understand each other, and it is worth paying for such a person, otherwise, your wishful thinking will only bring trouble to others, and will not bring any benefits.
If you encounter the above three zodiac signs, you need to use some small tricks, blindly pleasing will only make them bored, and being appropriately cold will be more pleasing.
I wonder if you have any of the boys mentioned above? If that's what you're looking for, you can think of some ways to deal with it!