In the journey of life, accumulating experience is the only way to grow. Here are some tried-and-true survival tips that will help you become more calm and urban:
1.When answering in public**, avoid private content, and if necessary, end the call quickly after a brief conversation to avoid attracting attention.
2.When seeking help, it is sometimes easier to choose a friend of the opposite sex, which may be due to the natural affinity between the sexes.
3.Overemphasizing one's abilities in front of colleagues can be misinterpreted as showing off, especially if an older colleague is resentful.
4.When encountering a trainee car, you should keep your distance to avoid a collision, as the trainee driver may not be proficient enough in vehicle control.
5.When shopping in the supermarket, you should check the expiration date of the goods and give preference to fresh ones to ensure food safety.
6.Don't underestimate the security or janitorial staff in your company, they may be related to the top and know many secrets that you don't know.
7.When the work is free, you should observe the leader's expression, and if the leader is in a bad mood, you should avoid asking for leave or rest at this time.
8.When a friend invites you to dinner, even if you haven't eaten well, you should indicate that you have eaten enough, which is a polite response to a Chinese-style meal.
9.When you hear your friend's secrets, you should keep silent and avoid divulging them, otherwise you may be the first to be suspected.
10.When comforting others, maintain a serious expression and avoid smiling so as not to be misinterpreted as ridicule. Sharing your own experiences like this is often more resonant.
11.When a colleague learns that your salary is higher than his, you should appropriately express your work pressure and difficulties to reduce his jealousy.
12.When the husband and wife quarrel, the man should give in first, let the wife vent, and then communicate, in order to achieve a better solution.
13.Even close friends should avoid making jokes about each other's shortcomings, which can hurt each other.
14.When chatting, you should observe the other person's reaction and determine which topics are appropriate to discuss and which should be avoided.
15.Avoid saying overly harsh or impulsive words in front of your leader, which can lead to regret.
16.When drinking, you should indicate that you are drunk in a timely manner and avoid excessive drinking, so as not to make yourself uncomfortable.
17.When others share, focus on what they're currently viewing and avoid swiping to respect the other person's privacy.
18.Women should not carpool alone, especially when the car is full of people of the opposite sex, and should consider canceling the order to ensure safety.
19.When a man gives money to his parents, he should consult with his wife and also give some to his parents-in-law, so that his wife is often more acceptable.
20.When communicating with leaders or customers, you should avoid using voice and only send text to keep the communication formal and clear.
21.Even if the couple has a good relationship, when getting along with divorced friends, you should pay attention to the interaction between the husband and wife and avoid too much intimacy.
22.In a relationship, if you have no feelings for the other person, you should refuse to accept the gift so as not to give the other person the wrong signal.
23.When the relationship between the wife and her parents is strained, it is advisable to offer to live separately, sometimes distance can alleviate the conflict.