Between husband and wife, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels after getting along for a long time, and sometimes they will even be silent, which is normal to a certain extent. However, there is an elderly couple who behaves in the community that is shocking.
The couple has been living under the same roof for decades, but they haven't said a word for decades. Whenever someone hears about this, they are so surprised that they can't close their mouths. Now, the couple is helping their son with their grandchildren, while the aunt often goes downstairs to walk the baby. Over time, the aunt gradually gained a deeper understanding of the lifestyle of the elderly couple.
Since they were in their forties, they have chosen to be silent, sleep in separate beds, be busy every day, go home and cook separately, even if their son comes home, the aunt will cook for his son. Half of their son's tuition is covered by them, and if there is anything to say, a note will be posted on the refrigerator. In any case, they would not look at each other more, let alone talk. Even during the new crown epidemic, my aunt had a fever of more than 39 degrees for several days in a row, her whole body ached, her throat was so sore that she couldn't speak, and she couldn't get out of bed for several days. Auntie insisted on getting up to take medicine, order takeout, and spend that time strongly. And the old man really won't look at it.
When asked why she didn't get divorced, the aunt admitted that she had thought about it many times. However, she chose to endure. First of all, there were fewer divorced people at that time, and divorce would be very faceless; Secondly, it is quite difficult to raise children alone, and who dares to guarantee that they can find a better life after a divorce? If you don't get divorced, at least the biological father has no second thoughts about the child. She sees the old man as a money-making machine and helps her raise her children together. Why is it necessary to give affection to this machine? Now with his grandson, the old man is responsible for buying vegetables, and the aunt is responsible for cooking, and they cooperate with each other tacitly. Such a tacit understanding is accumulated over time, and there is no need for words. The aunt laughed and laughed a little self-deprecating.
The old man often walks around the community, plays chess and chats with a group of old friends, and seems to have a very normal interaction with the outside world. Perhaps, as the saying goes, the closest relatives are the most alienated couples. When the relationship between husband and wife is good, it is like glue, and when the relationship is poor, they want to kill each other, even more than the enemy.
On the Internet, many people laugh at themselves that couples have become the best brothers, and they have no desire except for responsibility. In this regard, I would like to say that being able to live like a brother without living a life of boredom with each other is already the best ending. This may be a special form of modern husband and wife relationship, although silent, but a tacit understanding.
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