There are unspoken rules in interpersonal communication that guide how we behave in social situations. Here are some of these rules:
1. In the toilet, don't gossip about others. Being polite and respectful is a basic principle.
2. In a blind date, if something leaves, the other party is likely to be not interested in you. It would be better to be honest.
3. When someone says that their husband is "useless" in front of you, it may be because they envy your life. Be cautious about this.
4. If you borrow someone else's car, even if you only drive 1 kilometer, you have to fill up the tank. It's a way to show sensible.
5. "Judging people by their appearance" is a real phenomenon, and most people will do so. Therefore, pay attention to your image and appearance.
6. When a woman wants to buy clothes, it is best not to go with a few close friends, because it is difficult to buy clothes she likes.
7. When acquaintances send red envelopes or transfer money through WeChat, it is best to wait for a few minutes before receiving them. It's polite that way.
8. When it is difficult to accomplish something, it is often because of insufficient benefits. Even if you have a good relationship, understand this.
9. Don't easily learn skills with relatives or work for relatives, because this can easily lead to disputes and dissatisfaction.
10. When giving gifts to the other party, it is best not to let the other party buy with you, so as not to embarrass the other party.
11. If someone says something they don't care about, don't mention it again. Respecting other people's feelings is a fundamental principle.
12. The jokes made by those who don't come and go often often have a truth component. Be careful.
13. If you and your relatives work in the same company, and the other party is the leader, it is best not to publicly announce this fact.
14. When several people are around you to sell something, be careful that the commission may be high. Be cautious in deciding whether to buy or not.
15. Don't talk about other people's shortcomings, don't hit people in the face, and expose people without exposing their shortcomings. Be kind and respectful.
16. Women prefer their younger selves, so salutation is very important. It is necessary to properly handle the issue of salutation.
17. When relatives and friends come to visit, if they are cold, it means that they are ready to leave.
18. If you are financially strapped for money, don't openly say that you are poor. Frequent mentions of financial issues can leave a bad impression.
19. Don't make your "black history" public, so as not to become a topic of entertainment for others.
20. Even if you don't like someone anymore, don't speak ill of them behind your back. Bad things spread thousands of miles, but good things don't go out.