Just as she was about to have dinner, her mother was contacted again through ***, she burst into tears in front of the camera, and her voice was choked:
Girl, I really can't stand being at home, your brother and sister-in-law don't let us live a good life at all!
I discussed it with your dad and wanted to come and stay for a while, do you think it's okay? ”
Xu Yanqiu, who was cooking, couldn't help frowning when she looked at her mother's grief-stricken appearance
Mom, if you have something to say, don't cry yet. I don't object to it if you want to come, but my family's conditions are limited!
You know, my house has three bedrooms, we live in one, your grandson lives in one, and my mother-in-law lives in one ......”
Alas, I really suffer from sin, what is the use of raising children, sons and sons are unreliable, they listen to their daughters-in-law for everything, and daughters and daughters can't be counted on, I will suffer for the rest of my life......”
Mom, don't cry, I didn't say I didn't care about you. Well, give me two more days, and I'll figure out how to ......”
Xu Yanqiu stretched out her hand and hung up **, knowing that if she didn't hang **, her mother's nagging would be endless.
The mother-in-law came in with a plate of fruit in her hand: "Yanqiu, what's wrong with your mother?" ”
Alas, it's not like I'm fighting with my sister-in-law again! I have to go to our house for a while, it's really a headache ......”
In fact, Xu Yanqiu knew in her heart that most of the quarrels between her mother and sister-in-law were her mother's.
My father has a cowardly personality, and he has been managed by his mother all his life, and his mother said that he didn't dare to go west to the east, and he didn't dare to resist what his mother asked him to do.
According to his brother's words, the only thing he is afraid of in the world is his mother's nagging.
Xu Yanqiu also has a deep understanding.
Mother is best at exaggerating things infinitely, she can talk all day long, and there is not a single word that is repeated.
After the elder brother got married, the sister-in-law had a strong personality and often clashed with her mother.
One mountain does not tolerate two tigers, the son married a daughter-in-law, and the mother still wants to take care of it.
However, who among the young people can stand her nagging?
Fortunately, my brother was smart, and he contracted 20 acres of wasteland on the mountain, built two huts, and let his mother and father move up the mountain to live.
After more than ten years like this, it has been relatively quiet.
Last fall, my father broke his leg while picking chestnuts and had trouble moving, so my brother had to pick them up from the mountain.
But my mother is only old these years, her temper has not changed at all, and she wants to regain power as soon as she comes home, and her sister-in-law does not do what she wants, and she thinks that they are forced to go up the mountain by her sister-in-law, and she finds fault everywhere.
At first, my sister-in-law endured it, but she couldn't stand it like this every day, so she began to fight back.
The two sides come and go, my brother has become the one caught in the middle, and his life is really a mess!
Since then, Xu Yanqiu has been afraid of her hometown.
Sister-in-law beats ** is always one thing, that is, to complain, complain about how strong and unreasonable her mother is, and arrange her to reverse right and wrong.
And the mother's ** has only one content, that is, to complain, complaining that her sister-in-law is not filial, her eldest brother does not help her, her own life is hard, and she has raised a pair ......of children but suffers in vain
How should Xu Yanqiu solve it? can only coax on both sides, first to appease the sister-in-law, and then to appease the mother.
She had tried to persuade her mother, telling her that when she was old, she should bow her head and pretend to be deaf and dumb at the right time
My brother and I are your own sons, and we have no problem with you and we won't be angry.
But my sister-in-law is different, she is not your own and has not been raised by you, why should she put up with your anger?
If you really figure it out, think about it from another perspective, if she is a mother-in-law and you are a daughter-in-law, she cares if you buy salt and vinegar, will you be angry and annoyed? ”
When the mother heard this, she lowered her head and lowered her eyelids, trying to show that she understood.
However, the problem has not been solved, and the contradictions between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are getting deeper and deeper.
Looking at Xu Yanqiu's face full of sorrow, her mother-in-law couldn't help but sigh. She knows a lot about her mother's temper, and she can do anything with her, if she offends her, she can turn over the eighteenth generation of your ancestors:
Otherwise, she is willing to come and live here for a while, so let them come......”
Mom, they can't live in our house when they come......”
Don't I still have a house in my hometown, I'll go back to my hometown. ”
Mom, why do you want to go back to your hometown again? As soon as Li Mo entered the door, he heard his mother say this
Don't mention this stubble in the future, we haven't been back for seven or eight years, and I'm afraid the house in my hometown has ......collapsed”
Xu Yanqiu knew that what her husband said was not an exaggeration.
The eldest son is 13 years old, and since he was not born, his mother-in-law came to help, and his father-in-law stayed alone in his hometown for four or five years.
In the year the second child was born, his father-in-law died of illness, and since then, his mother-in-law has never returned to his hometown.
When Erbao was in kindergarten, her mother-in-law said that she wanted to go back to her hometown to live, but neither of them agreed.
There is no one at home anymore, and going back is just adding to the sadness.
The two children even hugged their grandmother's legs one by one, crying and not letting her leave.
So, the mother-in-law stayed.
Li Mo said that the old man may feel that the child has grown up and she is useless here, so he is afraid of dragging everyone down.
So, Xu Yanqiu was responsible for picking up and dropping off the children from school, and often found her some small manual work to do.
This will ensure that she doesn't work too hard and prevent her from being idle.
Sometimes, Xu Yanqiu can't help but think that it would be good if her mother could be as reasonable as her mother-in-law.
Is that really the case? Yanqiu's mother quarreled with her sister-in-law again and wanted to come and live here for a while.
I thought about it, there is still an empty house in my hometown, and I miss home, so let's go back and live for a while. ”
Can the house still be lived? ”
Why can't I live, I discussed it with the neighbors and asked them to take care of it.
They grow some vegetables in the yard, and the house allows them to open the windows for ventilation every 10 days and 8 days, and I asked your aunt yesterday, saying that there is no problem with the house and your father when he is there......”
But ......"Don't be, just listen to me. Your father-in-law and mother-in-law have raised a daughter, so you can't want to come to live at her daughter's house for a while, right?
Compare your heart to your heart, Yanqiu treats me as my own mother and filial piety, and you have to treat your father-in-law and mother-in-law as your own parents and filial piety.
This matter was decided, it was late today, I will sort it out tomorrow, and I will leave the day after tomorrow.
Autumn, you can ask your parents to come over too......”
Li Mo listened to his mother's words, looked at his wife's tightly knit brows, and finally chose to be silent.
That's right, even if the father-in-law and mother-in-law have many shortcomings, that is the wife's biological parents.
Parents want to see their daughter, how can they stop it?
After dinner, my mother-in-law went out for a walk.
She said that she has lived here for more than 10 years, and her upstairs and downstairs neighbors have known each other, and she has to say goodbye before leaving.
Xu Yanqiu finished her housework, found a suitcase from the basement, and prepared some clothes for her mother-in-law:
Li Mo, go to the bank tomorrow to withdraw some money for my mother to bring, it is not as convenient as going to the countryside to the city, I think it is better to bring some cash. ”
Okay, how much to take? ”
Is taking 6000 enough? The first time I went back, it was equivalent to settling in again, and all daily necessities had to be purchased again......”
Okay, listen to you. I wonder how long your parents plan to stay this time? ”
I don't know! With my mother's character, I really want to live in our house, and I have a premonition ...... distress”
The thirteen-year-old eldest son leaned against the door and watched his parents busy, and suddenly said:
Mom, when I grow up, I won't get married, and I won't marry a wife......”
Xu Yanqiu was stunned for a moment: "Son, how can you have such an idea?" ”
Marriage is too complicated. You see, if my dad doesn't get married, he can always live with my grandma, and if you don't get married, you can always live with my grandpa. Don't worry about who's going to whom.
My grandmother has lived in our house for more than 10 years, and every time my grandma and grandfather say they want to come, she has to go back to her own hometown.
In fact, think about it, she hasn't been back to her hometown for more than 10 years, and there may not be many acquaintances in her hometown, does she really want to go back?
I don't think so! But if she continues to stay here, there will be no place to live when grandpa comes, so you will feel uncomfortable, you will be uncomfortable, and Dad's life will not be easy.
Dad is unhappy, and grandma is distressed.
So she had to offer to go back to her hometown to make room for my grandfather.
In the final analysis, she feels sorry for her father and for you, and she doesn't want to embarrass the two of you.
When my brother and I grow up and get married, there will be fathers-in-law and mothers-in-law and so on, what will you do if you encounter this situation again?
I'm afraid that when the time comes, you will also learn from your grandmother, and in order not to embarrass me and my brother, you can only leave my and my brother's house and live alone.
Although my brother and I feel sorry for you, we can only grieve our mother for the sake of our small family.
You can't let these things disturb the whole family.
So, it's better that I don't get married, so that I will always be filial to you and my father......”
Xu Yanqiu and Li Mo listened to their eldest son's words and looked at each other.
They didn't expect that a twelve or thirteen-year-old child would have such a long-term idea and analyze it so meticulously.
Yes, my mother-in-law has not returned to her hometown for more than 10 years, and for more than 10 years, more than 4,000 days and nights, no matter how deep her feelings are, she may only be lonely when she returns to her hometown.
Xu Yanqiu stopped what she was doing: "Li Mo, don't be busy, my son is right, we can't let my mother go......”
What if your parents come? ”
If it really doesn't work, let's rent them a small house in the community, so they can live as long as they like.
To be honest, with my mother's temper, I really want to live with us, I feel a little frightened.
She can make a mess of my brother and sister-in-law's life, and if we really live together, I'm afraid our family won't be able to ...... peaceQuality Authors List