I've been thinking about a question lately. How can love last forever? The writer Su Sen once said: "Don't just be obsessed with love, character is more important. Love is temporary, but character is eternal. Even if love slowly fades, feelings are maintained by kindness. ”
We all know that all relationships start for different reasons, but the determining factor of a long-term relationship ultimately depends on the personality of the other person. Imagine that in the process of finding a partner, we are actually betting on our own future.
1.He loves vanity and loves to boast:
Men who love vanity and braggart usually hide their shortcomings. There is a saying, "Vanity is not a bad habit, but all bad habits start with vanity." "People who focus too much on the surface tend to lose sight of the inner essence.
I wasn't strong enough on my heart, so I deceived myself only by false appearances of my own making, and I made irreparable mistakes in order to live in the illusions I created. The actor of the movie "The Last of Us" finally lost his true face and hearts in pursuit of the so-called "face".
2.He doesn't do anything because he doesn't want to progress :
Most men who are not enterprising and have nothing to do have a bad personality have a bad character. In "Left Ear," he wrote, "I met a helpless man at an age when I couldn't afford to wait. "The most helpless thing in a marriage is to be with someone who doesn't want to. Make progress. Thing.
He will forget your encouragement when he listens to it, and he will turn a deaf ear to your complaints. When you go through tribulation, you never see hope. Marriage requires the cooperation of both parties, and the laziness of one party can ruin the marriage.
3. Narrow-minded and lack of understanding
Narrow-minded and unsavvy men almost always have a bad character. Disagreements and conflicts are inevitable in relationships, but what really tests your partner is their attitude towards these issues.
You talk about the East, he talks about the West, he talks about emotions, he talks about winning or losing, and you always have to fight for good and evil. A tolerant and understanding man is a woman's deepest blessing. If you don't, your relationship may become exhausted by repeated arguments and calculations.
Life is short, don't waste time on people who are confused and have no plans for the future. Oswald once said, "A happy marriage is one of the greatest joys in life, but an unhappy marriage is like going to hell alive." "Marrying a man of bad character can make your life miserable. That's just the way it is.
In the arena of love, character is always the most important. As many netizens said, find someone who is good to you, not someone who is good to you now. Because when passion fades, the good goes bad, and the character guarantees the lower limit of the quality of love.
Love is a beautiful thing, but in order to guarantee a happy marriage, you should always keep your eyes open and carefully observe if your partner behaves like this. The rest of your life is limited, and hopefully you can meet a good man who is truly worthy of your trust. What do you think of these ideas? Feel free to leave a message to share your thoughts!