Do you think the timing of your child's birth is important? Needless to say, there is a point in choosing the birth of a child!
Many parents want their children to be able to".Good day and auspicious day"Born, all the way smoothly, healthy and safe to grow up, in the future, the child can glorify the ancestors, it will be better.
Although the date of birth does not determine the future fate of the child, but if the childGood timing for birth, the growth process will be smoother, yesVery blessed people
And in the context of eugenics, if the child is born at the right time, within the family's plan and blessing, it is good for both mother and baby.
But on the contrary, if the baby is not so good when it is born, it may be a disaster for the family.
The birth was not at the right time, and both mother and child suffered
I know an eldest sister who gave birth to a second child a few years ago, the eldest is a daughter, the second is a son, just made up the word "good", it stands to reason that her family should be very happy.
But the eldest sister often said to us sadly, "I regret itThe second child was born at a bad time, not blessed people, both adults and children suffer! ”
It turned out that the eldest sister's family conditions were very good, and after years of struggle, the husband and wife founded a company, bought a few apartments in a big city, and their daughter also went to college.
But then the economy was not good, and the company's efficiency dropped a lot, and her husband was still thereLose a lot of money
But at this juncture, husband and wifeThe two often quarreled, to the extent of divorce, and she also found that her husband was still thereWith the woman outsideUnclear.
In order to make my husband change his mind,Keep your husband's heart, the eldest sister decided to give birth to a son for her husband, so she began to prepare for pregnancy in her forties.
The eldest sister's husband and daughter strongly opposed her having a second child, thinking that she was so old that even if she was healthy, she would not have the energy to take care of it.
The old people in the family are also old, and they must not be able to help the eldest sister take care of the children, and their family did not have so much money at that time, so they may not be able to hire a nanny.
In the face of these unfavorable conditions, the eldest sister is stillSingle-mindedness, determined to have a second son.
Later, she finally got her wish, and she was pregnant with her second child, but during the pregnancy, there were constant problemsGestational hypertension and diabetes, suffered a lot of sins.
Fortunately, the eldest sister's second child gave birth to a son, but it was born before 37 weeks, and she lived in an incubator for a month as soon as she was born.
The eldest sister didn't sit well in confinement, and there were more quarrels with the eldest daughter and her husband, and the confinement kept shedding tears, alsoSuffered from postpartum depression, almost killed himself.
In the end, the eldest sister is stillDivorce her husband, the family's economic conditions are not good, the second son is often sick, and the eldest sister is ten years old all of a sudden.
Because I gave birth to a second child,Both mother and son suffered old sinsFinish.
I believe that mothers who have listened to the story can understand her regrets.
Giving birth at an advanced age, and encountering her husband's change of heart and Dabao's resistance, no one has helped to take care of the baby, which is really a "blessing" time.
When was Fuwa born?
Although most of the child's birth date cannot be chosen, it may not be the auspicious day in the old man's mouth, but it is true that the child is born at a good time, and it can determine whether he will be blessed or sinned.
If the child is born at the following 3 times, it may be a "Fuwa", which is not a superstitious saying!
The baby was born when "Dad loves Mom very much", and he is very blessed.
It is said that "dad loves mom", which is the greatest feng shui of a family and the greatest blessing for children.
From pregnancy to the birth of the child, "Dad loves Mom", he can feel sorry for his mother, think about her in everything, and always make his mother happy.
Mom was happyFetal babies naturally develop better, more advantageous in terms of IQ and health.
After the baby is born, the personality must also grow well, the child is sunny and confident, emotionally stable, and the future is brighter.
On the contrary, Dad doesn't love Mom and always quarrels with her, deliberatelyMakes her angry, then the child in the womb, may not develop so well. After birth, children are prone to illness, crying, temper tantrums, and emotional instability.
A female friend gave birth to two sonsPhysical constitution and characterIt's not at all.
The eldest was conceived when "her husband loves her very much", during pregnancy and with a baby, she was very considerate, the boss was in good health after birth, rarely got sick, and performed very well in terms of personality and grades.
And the second child was born when "her husband didn't love her very much", and the two often quarreled, and her mother was pregnantOften angry and crying, so the second child is very sensitive after birth, and often loses his temper because of a little thing.
The second child's physique is still very weak,I got sick at both ends in three days, I didn't toss my friend, her husband didn't care about it, and the two sons were also paranoid in terms of personality.
Obviously, when the baby is born when "dad loves mom", mother and child are more blessed.
It is undoubtedly more blessed that the baby is born at the best age for the mother.
From the point of view of eugenics, the best reproductive age for women is generally between 23-30 years old, and now that medicine is developed, it can be extended to 35 years old appropriately.
Before the age of 35, the quality of the eggs is high, and the fetal treasure conceived is of higher quality, and it is not easy to have problems.
And the mother is at this age, and the physical fitness is also better, after pregnancyIt's not easy to getGestational hypertension, gestational diabetes, moreIt is not easy to give birth to deformed children
When women are in their twenties with their babies, they are also more energetic, willing to take their children to exercise together, play parent-child games together, and do early education with their hearts, which is undoubtedly more beneficial to children's intellectual and physical development.
It is not an exaggeration to say that a child born at such a time is a "Fuwa".
However, when a woman has a child after the age of 35, she faces various challenges and risks during pregnancyThe odds of your baby being unhealthyIt will also increase year by year.
After giving birth to a baby, the mother's energy with the child will also face challenges, and the physical strength cannot keep up, always restraining the baby, and will also affect the normal development of the baby.
Like the eldest sister above, she only gave birth to a second child in her 40s, which is obviously not a good time, the child is sick in various ways, her own physical recovery is slow, and her spirit is facing collapse.
The second child may be "unlucky" as she said.
When the baby is born in good family conditions, both mother and child are more blessed.
The family conditions are good, including two aspects, one is that the family has money, and the other is that there are elderly people to help the mother take care of the children.
When the baby is born, the family has money, and it is very blessed to be able to provide him with good milk powder, nutritional products, and early education courses, and to provide him with good educational resources when he grows up.
Mom gives birth at this time, tooYou don't have to live your life tightlyYou can ask a babysitter to take the children yourselfThere is money and timeIt is used to restore the body and complexion, and when the body is better, it can bring the child better.
But there is not much money at home, if there is an old man to help take the baby, the mother and the child are also blessed, don't worry that the mother will be tired to collapse, everything is covered by the old man, the mother is onlyThere is time to delicately bring the babyto develop the child's intelligence.
When born at home with money and the help of the elderly, the child and the mother are undoubtedly blessed people.
Of course, sometimes when a child is born, there may not be so much choice for adults. If a child is born unexpectedly, as long as it is healthy, it is also the greatest blessing.
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