The Spring Festival wedding tide in rural areas is prevalent, and the cost of bride price and banquet has soared, what are the countermeasures?
Rural New Year's Entertainment: An Examination of Dowry and Feasts.
In this New Year, blind dates and marriages gathered in the countryside have regained people's attention. The traditional wedding customs in the countryside have gradually evolved in modern times, with high bride prices and extravagant banquets, which are eye-popping. Beneath the surface of the blind date and marriage boom among rural youth, there are a series of deep-seated problems.
Blind date: The bride is rising.
Blind date: Every year during the Chinese New Year, parents in rural areas will hold a "blind date" to build a happy platform for their children. And if it goes well, it will bring a big financial burden to the men. Just preparing for this wedding, it cost hundreds of thousands, and the "engagement bride price" is also a large amount, from thousands of yuan in the past to 180,000 now, the price of the dowry is very high, which is difficult to accept.
Read more: Wave after wave of courtship is pouring in. Both families are considering each other's family situation, personality, and other aspects. This time, the engagement ceremony was like a small-scale wedding, the table was full of food, and the cups touched each other, and it suddenly became lively. However, the cost of doing so should not be underestimated. Not only must they be fully prepared for this engagement, but they also have to spend money on the dowry, and the amazing dowry fee is like a dark cloud that has been pressing on the eve of their wedding.
Wedding Banquets: The Pursuit of Extravagance Has No End.
Extravagant dowry "In rural weddings, the dowry is becoming more and more bizarre, and the amount of the male dowry is rising, becoming a financial burden for a family. In some places, the bride price is as high as 2 million, leaving men at a loss. The amount of dowry exposed on the Internet is so large that people can't help but speculate whether such luxury is the best interpretation of love?
Extended to say: Wedding banquets, a glorious event in the countryside. The huge amount of dowry money made the man a little helpless, as if a mountain was pressing on him. The special meaning of the dowry seems to have become a symbol of exchange of money, and people cannot see the true meaning of this love. As for the dowry, it is even more amazing, often millions of dollars, which is simply taking out the whole family's wealth, which makes people have to feel deeply worried about today's extravagant wedding style.
Finance and Love: The Death of Comparative Culture.
Disparity between the rich and the poor: The culture of marriage in rural marriage customs is becoming more and more popular, and huge bride money and extravagance have become the focus of people's attention. The gap between the rich and the poor is widening, and men feel helpless in the face of endless financial needs. And with the gradual entanglement of love and money, marriage is not only a spiritual union between two people, but an economic and industrial contest.
Extended reading: Money and love are intertwined on the road to happiness. There is a culture of comparison everywhere, and the ever-widening gap between wealth and wealth keeps people wandering. Marriage is not an easy thing to do, nor is it an easy thing to do. Money has become an important indicator to measure the success or failure of a relationship, and in the face of money, the original pure concept of love has been completely overthrown, which makes people sad for this love that has been labeled as "**".
Reflection and reflection: how to clear the dark clouds and see the sun.
Social correction: The consumption of marriage in rural areas remains high, and the root cause of it is still to rely on the strength of the whole society to reverse it. Only by strengthening legal supervision, establishing correct values, and promoting changes in the social atmosphere can we effectively control our country's extravagant behavior. At the same time, all families should also deal with the issue between marriage and money rationally, and not turn marriage into a "money" transaction, but pay attention to the balance between feelings and obligations.
Expansion: The "money" bubble in rural marriage customs reflects the lack of social ethics at that time. Marriage consumption is a microcosm of society, and behind it, it is actually a blatant provocation of traditional etiquette and human relations. In the face of such a phenomenon, we cannot sit idly by, but we must all do it together. In order to achieve this goal, it is necessary to promote a change in the social climate and to establish a new set of values that return to the relationship between "affection" and "duty", and make it a bond between "love", "family" and "society".
Personal opinion. During the Chinese New Year in the countryside, the extravagance and extravagance at the wedding not only make people worrying, but also expose the excessive pursuit and comparison psychology of modern people. On this basis, we believe that from the perspective of economic interests, marriage is more based on the combination of feelings and personality. I hope that everyone can think rationally about marriage, cherish the true happiness inside, and calmly face the mainstream values and fashions of this era. Let love return to its original state, and let rural marriage change from simple money to a symbol of feelings and obligations.