Rural tombstones should not be "erected indiscriminately", and there are three situations that need to be paid attention to when erecting monuments
As the temperature drops after the rain, there is still light rain in some places, and spring is getting stronger, so when you are in the countryside, you are also particular.
The establishment of the stele is an ancient ritual, which is used to commemorate the deceased, record the name, birthday, date of death and other information of the deceased, so that future generations can know the deceased or ancestors, which can be said to continue the history of a family.
It is said that you can't build tombstones casually in the countryside, and there are no three kinds of graves, what's so special?
In the countryside, tombstones cannot be erected casually, and local laws and regulations must be complied with, so as to better maintain the rural environment. In the countryside, the number of cemeteries is very small, and the cemetery is a big problem, so in the countryside, a tombstone will be erected casually, which will occupy a large amount of arable land, resulting in a decline in the area of cultivated land, so for the land in the countryside, some regulations will be formulated to restrict the tombstone.
In some villages, the property rights and use of land are more complicated, and if there is no plan to set up or encroach on other people's land, it is easy to cause disputes, so it is necessary to formulate relevant administrative regulations to define the ownership and use of cemeteries.
It is said that there are no tombstones in all three graves, so what's so strange about that? In the countryside, there is a custom of not putting a tombstone on a tombstone for the following reasons:
(i) The root causes of poverty. The economic situation in some villages is relatively poor, so it costs a lot of money to build tombstones, so some rural families do not set up tombstones on tombstones in order to save money (the same is true for predecessors).
ii) Grounds of faith. Some villages have religion, according to religious regulations, do not set up tombstones on the graves, such people will follow local customs, handle the cemetery matters, do not erect tombstones, it is also a religious behavior.
iii) Secret burials. In the countryside, some people will choose to be buried in secret, that is, without a tombstone. This may be the case for specific reasons, such as an unseemly person in a family, or a funeral involving some privacy issue (just providing information).
It is worth pointing out that this situation is not that there are no tombstones in the villages, but it is a very special situation, and most rural families still set up tombstones on the graves to remember their deceased relatives.
However, when building a tombstone, you should also pay attention to many things, such as the material of the tombstone, as well as the direction, generally the tombstone will choose a good direction, which can be south or east, and the material of the tombstone should also be paid attention to, preferably stones, bricks and the like, because these things can be stored for a long time.
The author believes that paying attention to the establishment of inscriptions is for the sake of respect for ancestors and the wishes of future generations. Although there are slight differences in different places, in general, they all respect the ancestors and value the family.
Conclusion: We must believe in science, but also have certain traditional habits, the graves in the above three situations can not be erected, whether there is a monument, mainly depends on the local customs and habits and the will of the family, whether there is a monument or not, we must respect the deceased as the first, and those traditional customs are a special performance of the deceased, what do you think?