People have busy lives and pursue a happy life all their lives.
Everyone's definition of happiness is different. Children see happiness as coming from not having to do homework, adults think happiness comes from not having to pay off a mortgage or car loan, and older people think happiness comes from seeing their children succeed. I am.
But happiness doesn't come automatically. Building a happy life requires us to use our hands.
You don't have to be rich if you want to be happy. These three are all you need.
1. Balance family relationships.
Whether it is the post-80s or post-90s, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been an obstacle to a happy life for them. How many couples quarrel every day because of the discord between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and even divorce in serious cases? Neither women nor men can handle family relationships well.
I've seen couples in front of the Civil Affairs Bureau divorce counter*** but women are still complaining. The husband is a mother-in-law, and he only listens to his mother and sister, and never listens to his wife. But I think they had a sweet time together and even fell in love, but they broke up because they didn't know how to deal with family problems.
In "Happiness Falls from the Sky", Liu Shanpeng couldn't balance the feelings between his mother and wife, and allowed his mother to intervene in marital problems, which eventually led to divorce, which is what I did. The children were injured. I was hurt the most, as was my wife of eight years of marriage.
When I watched ** yesterday, I saw such a sentence: My wife is not from our family, but she is married to me. She doesn't need to be a good daughter-in-law in the eyes of others, she just needs to be my daughter-in-law and a loving wife.
Their lives are particularly happy. Separation from elders can reduce the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is in response to "distance produces beauty". Even if they meet, they may not be able to meet, and even if something happens, a man can do anything for his wife.
"Everyday troubles are more difficult to avoid than disasters in marriage," Márquez said. ”
Marriage is not about marrying into a man's family, but about two people working together to form a new family. Spending time with the man's parents. We worry day and night so much that we lose the true meaning of life.
Properly handle family relationships and return to the safe haven of your family, so that you can get closer to a happy life.
2. Have the ability to make money.
As the saying goes, a problem that can be solved with money is not a problem. However, money is particularly important in this society, and we cannot lack not only money, but also the ability to make money.
In everyone's eyes, housewives are also known as nannies. In recent times, there have been an endless stream of news reports about housewives. "Housewives divorced because of their husband's affair. "The housewife divorced five years later and only received 50,000 yuan in compensation. "These things are telling. Injustice against women. Some people make this choice for the sake of family, but I want all women to understand that even if you are a stay-at-home mom, you need to have the ability to earn money.
Even if you are happily married, you need to have faith that you will have a good life after the other person leaves.
3. Educate children well.
Children are the heart and soul of many families, the focus of parents' attention, and having a happy family is the life that most people yearn for.
However, children will always go through a period of rebellion. During adolescence, many families suffer family tragedies because they do not educate their children. If you want to be happy, don't neglect your child's education.
I remember when I was in middle school, I had a neighbor. The little boy in the family did well in his studies. At that time, he had good grades and was in the top three in his class. If his parents had given him the right guidance and education as a teenager, he would not have dropped out of junior high school to join the workforce.
At that time, it was popular to go to Internet cafes to play games and QQ. It's normal for a child of this age to be a little rebellious. However, instead of teaching him the right thing to do, his father blamed him. Mentally, whenever a teenager listens to his father, he is beaten, and the child leaves the house crying at night, ignoring his father. Later I heard that he was sent to school ** Internet addiction.
Whatever the specific reason, the neighbor's actions set the child down an uncertain path. If you study well, you can obviously live a better life. As parents, we all have a heavy responsibility to not only raise our children, but also to teach them principles, guide them on a better path, and take responsibility for their own lives.
Only when the child is healthy, the parents can rest assured and the family will be happier.
Happiness is not having a lot of money to spend, but having a good family environment, the ability to support yourself and your family, and having children and a good future.
I hope that everyone can live their own happy life, hand in hand with their lovers for a lifetime, and grow together.