Living in this complex world, we inevitably intersect with all kinds of people and things. In these intertwined trajectories, we sometimes hurt and are hurt by others. These injuries, whether they are young and ignorant or beyond our means, are part of our journey in life. Choices are always accompanied by two sides, and those hurts that we want to withdraw are like scars that have been imprinted on the soul, reminding us of our past mistakes.
However, life is such a journey full of variables and choices. We can't always make the right decisions, and we can't completely avoid causing harm to others. But it is these hurts and guiltes that make us understand the true meaning of life and the relationships between people more deeply.
In the face of guilt and hurt, we may not be able to escape, nor can we simply use a "sorry" to heal all the wounds. But we can choose to make peace with our guilt, learn to learn from it, and keep growing and improving.
Dancing with guilt doesn't mean we're bound by guilt, it's about learning to accept it, understand it, and turn it into motivation to move forward. Every hurt is an opportunity to grow, and every guilt is an opportunity for self-reflection. Through reflection and change, we can gradually reduce the harm we do to others and allow ourselves to become more mature and wise.
Of course, reconciling with guilt doesn't mean we have to forget the mistakes and hurts of the past. Instead, we should remember these experiences as a precious treasure in life. It is these experiences that make us appreciate what we have now, and how to respect and care for others more.
Eventually, we need to learn to live well. No matter what happened in the past, no matter what difficulties and challenges we are facing now, we must firmly believe that we have the ability to get out of the haze and meet the future. Reconciling with guilt does not mean that we give up our right to pursue happiness and joy, but rather that we should cherish what we have more now and work harder to pursue our dreams and goals.
In this world of variables and choices, let's learn to live at peace with guilt, grow and progress together. Let us cherish every experience and lesson, and face the challenges and difficulties of life with wisdom and courage. Only in this way can we truly live our own lives, live our values, and live a wonderful life.