Lao She has a saying that has become very popular recently, he wrote in "Camel Xiangzi": "To love or not to love, the poor have to decide on money, and the "love species" is only born in a rich family. ”
In fact, Lao She also had an extramarital affair, and he cheated when he was 39 years old. also lingered in pain in family and extramarital affairs for a while, and then reluctantly chose to return to the family.
In 1938, Lao She published "Camel Xiangzi", which became famous in one fell swoop, causing quite a stir in the entire literary and artistic circles.
At this time, under the introduction of ***, the talented girl Zhao Qingge became Lao She's assistant.
At that time, Lao She was 39 years old, married, and had three children. And Zhao Qingge is only 24 years old, which is the age of his prime.
The two get along day and night, and they have a very tacit understanding at work. Compared with his wife, Zhao Qingge understands Lao She very well, not only his works, but also his people.
The matter of the two people began to come out, and it caused a lot of discussion for a while.
In 1943, Hu Jieqing, who was thousands of miles away, was very angry when she learned that her husband was living together, and she took her three children to Chongqing to find Lao She through the blockade line.
His wife suddenly appeared in front of him, and Lao She was very flustered. can only let Zhao Qingge move out and let the mother and son live in.
The difficult choice came, although Lao She very much wanted to live with Zhao Qingge, he was also full of guilt for his wife. When his wife was in the midst of war, she protected a large family by herself, which made him very moved.
At the same time, Zhao Qingge was also disappointed when he saw that Lao She was unable to make a choice. Zhao Qingge said: "Lao She lied to her. "The name she wants, Lao She can't give it at all.
In the end, Lao She returned to the family, Zhao Qingge left for the country, and the two never saw each other.
Later, Lao She still regretted it and wrote to Zhao Qingge, saying that the two could go to live abroad together, and he could support two people by writing. Although the two did not meet, they have always exchanged letters and exchanged more than 100 letters.
Later, Zhao Qingge told Lao She that his life was a little difficult. Lao She sent her 800 yuan, and this money became the fuse of the conflict between Lao She and his wife.
During the special period, Lao She was criticized, and his wife Hu Xiqing took the lead in exposing him for messing with the relationship between men and women. After Lao She was beaten in the evening, he went home, but Hu Xiqing did not open the door for him. Lao She sat alone in Weiming Lake for a long time, and finally committed suicide by throwing himself into the lake.
And Zhao Qingge was also unmarried for life, and before she died, she asked Lao She to burn the letter written to her by Lao She.
The relationship between these two people is really embarrassing, and this extramarital relationship may not be for money. It's real love. Yes, it was at the wrong time. In a sense, Zhao Qingge was really mistaken by Lao She for a lifetime.
What to do when you meet the person you love the most after getting married, maybe it's just a sigh.