With most of the relatives have been a person, the few get along will feel that the atmosphere is not right, neither look forward to it before meeting, but feel deeply tormented during the meeting, and wait until it is separated from relatives, and there will not be the slightest unfinished.
1. There is no extra time and extra money to maintain family affection
With the accelerated pace of life, most people are very busy, even if communication is becoming more and more developed, there is little contact throughout the year, and when you have to meet during the New Year's holidays, you will always make a short story on the matter, and you will have nothing to say when you have nothing to say.
Netizen message: It takes time and money to go to relatives, and tangible and intangible costs will become my scruples about walking around relatives, either I may be nervous in terms of time and money, or relatives may be nervous in terms of time and money, and over time, relatives move less and less, even if it is not a broken relative, it is better to break off a relative.
Comments: At the beginning, the family was forced to break off the situation, and in the long run, it will form a habit, since it has formed a habit, it will also have inertia, and there is no force to communicate between relatives, to the heart of no contact, and most relatives walk, walking will be broken.
Second, the current relatives will still put their interests first
When dealing with relatives, interests still take precedence, and if there is no common interest, there will be less contact; If you have common interests, you will gather if you come and scatter when you go; If there is a difference of interest, or even a dispute, the relatives will be at odds.
Netizen message: After experiencing the ups and downs of life, I realized the humanity of my relatives, when I was in the middle of my life, my relatives would either be jealous of me, or they would be close to me; When I hit rock bottom, my relatives would either fall into the trap or sneer. In the final analysis, the attitude of my relatives towards me depends on whether I am of use or not.
Comments: Valuing interests is right, if you attach too much importance to interests, human touch will be missing, now more and more relatives attach too much importance to interests, and breaking off relatives will become the product of over-valuing interests.
Third, there is too much difference between experience and experience
Today's relatives will be distributed all over the world, scattered in the cities of Tiannan and Haibei, far from the same as thirty or forty years ago, the range of activities of relatives is both small and limited, so even if there is a difference in experience and experience, there will be little difference.
Netizen message: My family relationship with many relatives only exists in good memories, and almost all good memories come from childhood, and when I grow up with many relatives, and then go their separate ways, although I have family affection, but the ambition is different, and the Tao is not compatible, so that I and many relatives feel both familiar and strange.
Comments: Relatives are innate, not acquired screening, so that some relatives are not as good as friends, when the experience and experience between relatives are vastly different, strong walking will still encounter the situation of not speculating more than half a sentence.
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